Thread: New man! Spicy advice needed

Originally Posted by Richard S

CW,

We have all gotten burned in triangular situations. It's practically a universal human experience.

At yet, we choose to open Pandora's box anyway. We step through the looking glass.

There is often an eroticism present in these situations that is undeniable. It's disingenuous to say otherwise.

As the rapper said back in the 90's, if you're gonna do it, do it well and make sure that it counts. Go downtown with a discount...

Live for the moment, protect your heart.

As Joesph Campbell said, often times regret is just illumination come too late. So, would you rather have regret for what you did or what you didn't do?

It's a choice we all get to make for ourselves.

At the moment the other surrenders, that is their choice.

And besides, didn't you love "Bridges of Madison County" ??? The part with Meryl Streep and the car door handle? Do you think she would have done anything differently if she had it do over?

I mean, it's just life.

You know i am one of the most opened minded persons truthfully, and i have a very bad, she devil inside that has no "boundries", and has learnt to have no inhibitions, so i agree why not regret, than regret what you didn't do. I am embarking on areas that i know i won't regret but would have had i not experienced them.

Being also a bit of a romantic, i am a woman, it would be wicked if that type of extacy could be found without being "naughty" yet, and play it out a bit, i know there is an excitement and stigma about it, something about the "un-attainable" makes you desire it even more...Didn't see that movie but will.

And, because i have all of these "errotic" thoughts and experiences of long.... intimacy where time sweeps away and an hour or so goes by, with a single man, over the past 3 months, i only want that for other single women.. Now that makes sense

I think most women think, it's not attainable in the same errotic fashion but having been with a married man, all be it only a short period, as he actually left his wife and i was aware as was she before we entered into it,we were together 4 years, i remember the thrill of it, up against the wall in the restaurant, etc....

Yes, and everyone should do what ever it is they "desire" to do, been reading as i said, to many pain stories over it, over the last two weeks i think.

I'm not a believer either way, as i said, i am too open minded. It would have been better for me to have just posed the question, sure you want to go down that path...

On your reply, we all know how to do that, and most of it is in the way that he reacts, but i have also been doing some reading etc, to make it better and "best", so i agree on that note.

Now i'll look at your link.....