Thread: Help

I dont like to give head how could i not think bout it an do it. i have never done it but i have played around an sucked fingers an my man said i would be dam good at it. help

You say you don't like to, but you've never tried. Why don't you either try it out first, I'm sure he'll understand if you try it for a few seconds, and if you don't like it, just stop or finish him off with a hand job or something. OR you could just tell him you're not comfortable yet. He should be very understanding about it. Just let him know you'll do it whenever you're ready. Nobody can force you to do anything you don't want to :]

Try to get good at hand sex before jumping into oral. What men want most is a woman who really loves to fondle and play with his penis, that is, so it turns her on as much as him. Start slowly and find that place in your own way, and hopefully it will touch your natural female instincts and the rest will fall into place.

If you tell a guy, "Look, what I want to do today is just fool around and explore how it feels to play with your c*ck", I absolutely promise he'll be fine with it.

Originally Posted by Richard S

Try to get good at hand sex before jumping into oral. What men want most is a woman who really loves to fondle and play with his penis, that is, so it turns her on as much as him. Start slowly and find that place in your own way, and hopefully it will touch your natural female instincts and the rest will fall into place.

If you tell a guy, "Look, what I want to do today is just fool around and explore how it feels to play with your c*ck", I absolutely promise he'll be fine with it.

Richard, here again I will agree with you...His hearing these sexual words out of you will turn him to putty...A man loves to be talked to like that...They love a woman to talk dirty to them..They can't talk dirty to you because they respect you too much so turn the tables on them and be their dirty sexual woman. Play with his co*k, adore it and like I did two days ago, rub it across your face and forehead and lick it and treasure that precious part of your man that takes you to heaven...And if you really love him and marry him never forget what you are doing...Don't forget to remember these ways of love...These are the things that you need for the years ahead of you that will bind you.....These are the passions that will bring you to the days of wine and roses.....Have fun...TC, C

The other point is that, you don't have to take him all the way in your mouth the first time you do it. There is a ridge of skin called the frenulum that runs from the head down to the circumcision line, along the underside of the penis. You can drive a man crazy just by running your lips and tongue up and down along that spot. It's almost like the male version of having a clit.

It is worth trying. A lot of men really really enjoy it - and I hope he will return the favor - which you might really enjoy.

Try playing with foods that you can lick off. It might make it more enjoyable for you.

OK - first, how old are you? It scares me because you sound really young...and if you are I won't be giving you BJ advice, I'll be telling you to stop and restrain yourself.

Originally Posted by metboogie

OK - first, how old are you? It scares me because you sound really young...and if you are I won't be giving you BJ advice, I'll be telling you to stop and restrain yourself.

I am 21 going on 22 soon

Its really not as bad as you think! i was really worried before i first gave head, purely because Id hold something in my mouth...like a pen for instance while i do something else and even that would make me gag!


but I did it, it was fine! Just tell your boyfriend not to push your head down
especially not until your used to it



you never know until you try