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    Default the way my wife does it...


    First before engaging in any oral acts I believe it is only curteous to have a fresh, clean area before welcoming your partner down there....

    Position has a great influence on a BJ. My experience is that while I enjoy the standing position, me laying on my back with a pillow behind my head offers more variety because my partner more options to choose from when changing positions in respect to my location. (like hands on a clock)

    Ok, I don't have any one time in mind of the "Best BJ Ever" however, there are a few techniques that my wife dose that drives me wild. With everything it is slow and subtle at first before becoming a little more vigorous. We usally start off with foreplay, lots of passionate kissing and necking, that leads to hand job action.
    (While lying on my back) After she gets warmed-up she'll slowly start kissing a trail south. She spends quite a bit of time teasing by kissing and licking the pubic area while allowing my "unit" to graze her face and head. She'll also take the time to gently rub the unit in her hand while she licks the "sack." After spending a few minutes doing all of this she'll position her face right above my "head" and begin brushing my head ever so gently with her lips. She'll gently lick the tip of my head with the tip of her tonge and then run it down the bottom of my shaft. She may take the opportunity to tease me again be licking my sack. With her whole tounge she'll return to turn to the top of my unit with a slow licking motion on the under part of my shaft. There she may toy with me a little longer, return to licking or sucking on my shaft(out fo mouth), or she may just thrust the whole thing in her mouth. I absolutley love not knowing exactly what she is going to do next. Most of the time, she likes to take her time in the transition of different phases of the BJ by going back in forth. (Foreplay, BJ foreplay, the Main Course, the "Red Zone, "TD", "End Zone" celebration) eg. At the start of the "Main Course" (as in a meal) she'll go back to licking the head, shaft and sack before she'll start to fully commit to the stroking action of her mouth and lips to the unit.
    The main course is full a variety, speed and how deep she goes, her tounge action, the amount of pressure she applies, the amount of sucktion, and positioning. My wife has great chorogarphy with the variables and as I have said before whe usally starts things slow and gradually becomes more vigorous. With how deep she goes she'll change that up ever so often by going deep on several succession then focus on the top 3rd of the unit and then go back to going deep and periodically she'll deepthroat. Typically, my wife will start with gentle lip pressure in the "BJ Foreplay" session then escalate the pressure during the main course however, like most of these variables, she likes to go back and forth on the amount of lip pressure as well. eg. She might go from deepthroat with a lot a lip pressure to a long slow draw back to the head while gradually easing the lips until they reach the tip with a gentle kiss. The amount of sucktion she applies is usally dependant on where my unit is in her mouth or where here lips are if the unit is outside of her mouth. Two things I can not stand, TEETH!!! scrapping ouchh!, and hard sucking on the just the head where that is the only thing she has in the her mouth... talk about a erection killer. So she might suck hard when she is at deepthroat but not so hard when she is focussing on the head (or sack, those balls or sensitive). And changing position, she'll periodically move from a straight 12:00 position (her and my head and feet are facing the same direction) to 3:00 or 9:00 or just about any clock position. This allows the tounge to be position along different sides of the unit and allows me to give her some finger action. I wonder what type of action the 6:00 position can offer? About that tounge, I absolutley love it when she uses it to message the unit, caress the head, and wrap it around and lick my shaft inside her mouth and out. This whole time she makes sure that she returns to giving attention to my head, shaft and sack by kissing licking and sucking on them.
    (Other things that we have done that I like to revist is a litlle anal action, might not be for everyone but rimming and finger insertion really floods me with emotion or something... all I can say is WOW)
    OK, so all of this has been going on for some time and finally the "end zone" is in sight we have reached the "Red Zone"(a little football jargon). At this time my wife is usally not playing around now, she is realy going hard and fast, she has found the combination a variables that is really making me squirm. She is the New England Patriots of 2007, she can score TD at will, and just as I'm about to EXPLODE she stops, and slows down. She is like a ********** cat toying with a mouse before she eats it. Then she'll go back to licking the head, stroking the shaft very slowly with her hand, sucking on my sack. She'll work me back to the point of explosion again only to deny me once more. I am at her mercy.
    Only when she is satified does she put me out of my misery and kill me off with the pass to the END ZONE, TOUCH DOWN! at last. Poor me! And like the lucky SOB I am, my wife is a swallower.
    So the story is over...wrong. She has the nerve to continue to tounge play with my unit after I have already left the stadium. She carries on with the "End Zone celebration" until the opposing team has to take her out... Seriously she will play and suck and have fun with the unit until I yank it out of her mouth. For you who don't know, after ejaculating the head of the penis is even more sensitive then it was before, so all of her sucking that was feeling oh so good before is actually tickling the hell out of me.

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    First off, the best BJ starts off with a woman who REALLY is into it. And I don't mean making porn noises and telling me how big I am...but there's a certain eagerness, aggressiveness, guile that a woman gets when she wants to please her man and is intent on doing so.

    Now, for me the best position to receive a BJ is with the woman on her back, head propped up on a pillow and her pulling me into her. This has been done to me many times, but the best was when the woman had one hand teasing my anus, the other around my ballsack, and was just taking all of me very slowly, and putting pressure like she was sucking on a lollipop. Then, she would lightly (and I mean lightly) graze her teeth along my shaft. It was the ultimate multi-task BJ - she was stimulating me 3 different ways and I was getting chills...needless to say she finished the BJ and swallowed...then proceeded to lay me on my back, suck me a little more until I was hard again and screwed my brains out.

    Best. BJ. EVER.

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    Excuse me while I take a cold shower downstairs at the gym.....

    Great instructions/stories about great experiences.... thanks for sharing....

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    My wife uses a vibrating anal toy to massage my prostate while she gives me a blowjob. Really intensifies my orgasms. She uses lube for a combination blowjob/handjob.
    Many years ago I never dreamed that I would like anal play. Then as I came to understand my prostate I purchased a vibrating anal toy and asked my wife to use it on me during a blowjob and WOW I was hooked.
    We also enjoy strap on sex.

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    Default Here's a question?

    So guys love bj's i get that.

    Women love doing it, well those who do, i get that.

    Now, let's say you do this, then he is penetrating you, prior to all of that he was assisting you shall i say, your both heated, and you want to assume a different position say on top of him but in the middle of it, go back down on him first.

    The question is posed for this reason:-

    Is Penetration more desireable or the bj?

    Is a mixture during the intercourse stage- more desireable for the man then straight penetration until he ejaculates pertaining to my question above, or once "in" that's it, that's where he prefers until the end?

    Serious question here, not something i ever thought of asking a man..

    I personally thought that it is an act of love, as he has been inside you when you choose to do this, not for long but as a side thing .....

    So, if you don't answer me here, then i'll have no alternative but to create a thread, as i'd be hijacking myself anyway so should be in the rules. lol.

    As i said, serious question both sexes...

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    Quote Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH View Post
    So guys love bj's i get that.

    Women love doing it, well those who do, i get that.

    Now, let's say you do this, then he is penetrating you, prior to all of that he was assisting you shall i say, your both heated, and you want to assume a different position say on top of him but in the middle of it, go back down on him first.

    The question is posed for this reason:-

    Is Penetration more desireable or the bj?

    Is a mixture during the intercourse stage- more desireable for the man then straight penetration until he ejaculates pertaining to my question above, or once "in" that's it, that's where he prefers until the end?

    Serious question here, not something i ever thought of asking a man..

    I personally thought that it is an act of love, as he has been inside you when you choose to do this, not for long but as a side thing .....

    So, if you don't answer me here, then i'll have no alternative but to create a thread, as i'd be hijacking myself anyway so should be in the rules. lol.

    As i said, serious question both sexes...

    CW
    Interesting question. Will be fun to see the answers.

    For me, oral is either foreplay or it. If he is performing oral on me its foreplay. It usually leads to penetration and ends that way. There may be some oral afterwards as I am multiorgasmic and may have been on the edge and that lil push...as far as going from one to the other and back again... haven't been in this situation. So, along those lines, penetration is more desireable for me.

    On him, it may start as foreplay but usually ends in penetration without going back to oral. I do like to tease tho and have no qualms about switching back and forth. There are also those times where penetration does not even occure. I love starting him off and ending him with oral. I cannot answer the question as far as my partners POV but I will ask him. We are both pleasers so I may have to torture it out of him as he will beat around the bush of whatever turns you on is what I want to do. The brat.

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    Arrow ........

    I like it nice and messy,SALIVA (lots of it) until the entire business area is as slippery as an eal, loads of merciless beating, a few nips on the trunk, lots of pulling, and going deep, hands, feet, bum, everything on it, and once ready to blow I like my load spat all over my tool...and then we start round 2.

    Thank God I get it, If not I would have been in jail getting an ****** whopping for rapin the neighbours nanny.

    "I am a SICK but HONEST human being" so I had to say it.

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    I think that variety is nice. Neither is better - or more intimate. Sometimes one partner or the other feels like doing one or the other.

    My wife won't do oral (well maybe once every 5 years), so to me it would be very desirable. But -I'm pretty sure if we did it regularly I would enjoy oral and intercourse equally at different ties.


    Quote Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH View Post
    So guys love bj's i get that.

    Women love doing it, well those who do, i get that.

    Now, let's say you do this, then he is penetrating you, prior to all of that he was assisting you shall i say, your both heated, and you want to assume a different position say on top of him but in the middle of it, go back down on him first.

    The question is posed for this reason:-

    Is Penetration more desireable or the bj?

    Is a mixture during the intercourse stage- more desireable for the man then straight penetration until he ejaculates pertaining to my question above, or once "in" that's it, that's where he prefers until the end?

    Serious question here, not something i ever thought of asking a man..

    I personally thought that it is an act of love, as he has been inside you when you choose to do this, not for long but as a side thing .....

    So, if you don't answer me here, then i'll have no alternative but to create a thread, as i'd be hijacking myself anyway so should be in the rules. lol.

    As i said, serious question both sexes...

    CW

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    Quote Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH View Post
    So guys love bj's i get that.

    Women love doing it, well those who do, i get that.

    Now, let's say you do this, then he is penetrating you, prior to all of that he was assisting you shall i say, your both heated, and you want to assume a different position say on top of him but in the middle of it, go back down on him first.

    The question is posed for this reason:-

    Is Penetration more desireable or the bj?

    Is a mixture during the intercourse stage- more desireable for the man then straight penetration until he ejaculates pertaining to my question above, or once "in" that's it, that's where he prefers until the end?

    Serious question here, not something i ever thought of asking a man..

    I personally thought that it is an act of love, as he has been inside you when you choose to do this, not for long but as a side thing .....

    So, if you don't answer me here, then i'll have no alternative but to create a thread, as i'd be hijacking myself anyway so should be in the rules. lol.

    As i said, serious question both sexes...

    CW

    Put it this way - there is nothing like a great romp that ends with the woman getting off you and finishing with oral...even better is when she is on top (reverse cowgirl) and it feels like we are both getting close and she just slides back into a 69 and we come together in each other's mouth...you can feel both bodies quiver, sweat, and just head to toe orgasms...my ex cried the first time this happened (I pulled her into the 69, but she was into it)...the orgasm was so intense her emotions (and hormones) were in flux for a few days.

    But it just depends...personal preference is a huge thing. To me there is just nothing like simultaneous orgasm...however it is achieved.

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    Default a response to Chandlers Wish question

    Personally, I think a BJ is more pleasurable than vaginal. Hell, I think anal is more pleasurable than vaginal. However, both of those I feel are less intimate. My wife gives me a BJ because she wants to do something for me, just like I like to do something for her. However most of the time what starts out as oral, for me or her, ends in vaginal. So, yes we have tendencies mix it up a lot when we have sex, with several combinations of back and forth between oral (for me and for her) and vaginal, usally finishing off with vaginal or some times anal. But it is something really special when my wife goes all the way and gives me a BJ. The orgasim I get from what I described in the ealier reply is out of this world.

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