Sex for the first time
Hi guys, me again
If you havn't read my other thread then this may seem totally crazy to you. ANYWAY, as i've decided to lose my virginity to my b/f on sat or sun nxt week i'd just like to know if there is anything a guy will do if he knows it's the girls first time. He's had sex before so he's way more experienced than me. Any clues as to what i can expect?
Are you sure youre 110% ready honey?
I imagine if hes a genuine guy he will be incredibly worried with it being your first time. He should be understanding to your needs, if anything doesnt feel right you must communicate it with him and im sure he will understand.
From your previous thread, definitely try figleaves (think thats what its called), they have fabulous undies.
If youre definitely ready (and dont feel pressurised) then take this week to find out what feels good to you and share it with your boyfriend when you next see him.
Good luck hun, and remember, dont be afraid to say no to anything.
The beauty of love. You feel that intensity.
I agree, your sure 100% as he is prepared to wait, maybe he likes that thought.
You can still wear you sexy underwear as shown and ask for more intimacy that he would be happy with.
And take it slower.
If not and you've decided he is the one, well yes, candles, romance and ask him to be gentle, love you, and spend time with you first as it is your first time..
Well hopefully he will respect your virginity and be gentle with you. But young men are horny as and sometimes can get carried away and forget the situation. You may want to ask him to go slow with you, do some 69'ing, try "fingering", and then when you are hot hot hot, let him insert his erect penis into your vagina. Do not be afraid to ask him to stop if it hurts. You may want to be on top too for the first time, it lets you "be in control" of the penetration depth.
I also think that when you "ready", you will know it.
Regards,
Galahad123
Even if you're on top and HE's in control of the thrusting, you can be in charge of the penetration level ... it's how my boyfriend and I first had sex and it can make for a LOVELY angle of penetration.
Position yourself over him and guide him in just a little at a time. He can thrust in just an inch at a time until you're ready to take the whole thing, SLOWLY.
If he tries to push in too far, you can lift up your tail end so he can't get it any further in. It's a really personal, romantic position where you're face to face for good communication.
Good luck, but like the others said ... ONLY do it if you're ready.
He'll brag to every guy he ever meets for the rest of his life.Originally Posted by Angelic Babe
Fun Trick: When he's inside you, COUGH! cough like a 90 year old chain smoker with bronchitis.
I just gave you the best "first time" sex story you'll ever tell.
^ Haha, please do that and tell me what it was like
No, no, no, you're all wrong.
"Spooning" is the best first-time position. There's something about it that just gives the guy no other choice but to be gentle. And it leaves his hands free so he can touch and caress you.
We can't be ALL wrong; there's no 100% correct way to have sex. If there were, would sex be interesting at all?
I wouldn't have felt comfortable in the spooning position ... I need that eye contact and hand contact.
Everybody does it differently.
I agree completely with Little...In all our years of sex, we have never had the spooning position. Always eye contact with the exception of doggy....Much more erotic...
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