shweedart

I love having sex with my boyfriend lets face it, who doesnt? (well, not my boyfriend all of you!)

Anyhow! sometimes i really just wish he'd throw me about a bit, get a little rough, tie me up! that sort of thing. In short, BE A MAN!!

How can I intice him in that way without having to actual tell him?

telling him would be a last resort so any suggestions on how could i put the idea into his head??

CHANDLERS WISH

A simple way, is to leave two scarfes of the bed, when he asks what they are for, use your "body language" and see what he does. If he doesn't get it, pick one up and run it over your wrist, and wait again for his move.

SinisterUrge

buy a riding crop from stockroom.com and make sure he opens the box.

Richard S

The best way to do that is, when you're making love, to tell him "What I want from you this time is to just f*ck me as hard as you can." Men need to know they have permission to do that, especially the younger ones who are just starting out. We're told to be all sweet and gentle, it takes longer to understand how to be aggressive.

You could also tie him up and give him a long, slow BJ, so that by the time he comes he pretty much ready to explode. That should get the message across. What you are aiming for is to build up his ego and sense of masculinity. We don't know if this guy is a rugby player or if he just sits in front of a computer all day. Most guys don't get much chance to be physical except when we're having sex.

I actually found getting high also helps. The first time I made love after coming home from a party where they were passing a joint around was my girlfriend asking me, "What happened to you, did your friends teach you something?"

C

I really don't think this Forum encourages people getting high....

Richard S

You're right.

Since I can't edit my original post, let me rephrase...

There is quite a bit of anecdotal evidence to support the claim that marijuana can enhance the erotic experience, in particular it can heighten sensuality in both men and women, make men more aggressive and "into" sex, help couples to feel more connected, etc.

There is nothing wrong with trying things out in a spirit of youthful experimentation. However please be sure to follow the laws of your local country and jurisdiction at all times.

So, unless you and your boyfriend are planning a trip to Amsterdam, please disregard my earlier post or at least that part of it.

Again, please accept my apologies if I broke any forum rules, crossed any boundaries of good taste, or took the spirit of free and open discussion too far.

I'm sorry.

C

Richard: I am not into the drug world...I was surprised that a married man would "boost" of this on a Forum where 15 year old kids do post...I, as a parent, know more about drugs than you will ever know...That is unless you have walked my walk in life and dealt with what I have had to deal with and had to try and learn......You can smile and say how great it is or was and tell me that it brings on the most wonderful sexual experience....And I will tell you that you are full of sh*t....It is people that do this that push the younger generation deeper into trouble all the time....You did not realize this and I understand this...but you have never been the parent of a younger generation child that is so lost that you just don't know where to try and begin to bring them back to this place in time where they belong......End of story....

CHANDLERS WISH

Well for the first time i have to disagree with you on that post before.... It seems that everyone can in fact get carried away with their own fantasies or relived memories, be it in their past or present and type away.

I've done it and i have seen many do it. I would love to say something else on your verdict there, if i ventured down that path, but i agree with Caroline, i think the youngest i spoke to here recently was 12.

That's a hard call when you are on a Woman's Forum thinking that you are replying to "women" and consequently reminising for sure.

But, i am slowly learning that foot in mouth decease myself, i am sure you remember your mmmm on a reply i did.

Lightening it is well good try, bit WE NEED THAT EDIT BUTTON NOW......

That's all.

CM2008

This thread has really taken a turn to drugs or no drugs. So to get back to the original poster:

shweedart

I am a guy and would love to try this with my wife, but I haven't tried it because..... I'm not sure how she'd react. Probably due to the fear that she would get offended or upset.

I guess I'm too much of a gentleman, Now you've got me wondering...Perhaps my wife would like this. To reverse your question "How would I as a man know whether she'd like this?"

rcoreyus

You can always tell him that you've been bad and deserve a spanking.

Or, Tickling can be an intro to rough play.

Or - for his next birthday, get him 4 long scarves and a simle.

Or - next time he walks into the bedroom, let him find you kneeling with a riding crop in your teeth.

Or - start giving him a BJ, then stop and tell him that if he wants more, he'll need to "make you do it".

Of course, not all men are into rough play, any more than all women are. But it is probably a reasonable bet to at least hint.

but - if you do any sort of bondage play, be sure to have a safe word. Really.

I understand not wanting to tell him - but hints may not get exactly what you want: bondage, domination, discipline, rough sex, rape play are all different games - and it isn't that easy to "hint" at which you would like, and you might not get what you wanted. If he guesses wrong, don't get angry with him. If you are happy with any of those, then go for it .