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CHANDLERS WISH
I'm sitting here starving at 3pm in the afternoon!!! So now i'm eating...
I know you posted this before you read my previous post as i know that you would have just posted, not used Chandlers Wish again.
Yes, love is beautiful and real but you know, it can happen for some people only once then they spend the rest of their life searching again for it and can't find it.
Yes, it touches the soul and that is beautiful of course, and as for your parents having sex, who knows, they may be ones whom have very very infrequent sex as their relationship is now based on friendship or they could be he and she devils for all you know, i'm just glad i don't know too much about mine that would be hard to visualise..... And, trust me i am great at visualising.
I was thinking after you wrote this part and where you are looking at this, love is "relationships/ dating / husband and wife / general " and sex is well "sex"...
So, the touchy feeling expressions are expressed on the other thread areas and the sex is expressed in the sex forum and that is where people can go wild and express if you know what i mean.
As i said before, some say it subtley, some say it with words, some read everything take it in and practice and say nothing, and every now and then i see one pop up and go Huh? I would never have thought she had that in her / or him, based on them replying mainly through other thread areas...
So, again, i can only say work your way through, chill, dont be personal or take things personally.
I have changed myself since joining here as i have a much better understanding on how people communicate here, the difference between if i can say Little, Americans to Australians to English.. The difference in words and how that effects different people.
Sure men will all agree on masterbation, but there is also nothing wrong if a woman feels ( over the past 3 years from that experience that is all so new to her) that she can do it all and he doesn't need to, i mean that would be a mans fantasy wouldn't it, total bliss 24/7 neither work, they have all the time they need. So again, it's all good and again, an opinion of what works for one doesn't always work for another.
I am very pleased Katty1, that after your ordeal had at such a young age and your mature decision which was your decision alone to make, that you have been around guys that watch porn, are gay, been if i recall in a bi sexual relationship as in he was bi and you went out with him, and been in love with a French Man.
That, if you read some of my threads where abuse was made, almost raped, is a confident woman standing tall and going foward without much of a scratch other than possibly deep, but certainly a grounded woman with much love to give and want and desire.. I am truly thrilled as not many of us can do that as women.
But also, being married or living with a guy or never being there, is also very very different as far as the extent of communication and knowledge of each other in totality, what they think, feel, do, as when you are married you do know a **** load more about the person, or when you live with them, i know, 8 years remember, very different than just having a boyfriend or fiance...
Frankly, i like the on-going lust instead of cooking meals and washing their jocks, so i may play this differently this time round.
Lastly, i will say one thing for Caroline this time, she knows that there is more than just sex, she is in her sexual peak, he had difficulties and she chose to do what ever she had to to keep him up, so to speak and it worked and as a result she is walking around daily sexually charged but she also collects Antiques, loves her dogs, cooks for him, hugs him, goes away with him, for drives, etc, so of course she knows love, 50 years of it, as i said, it is so hard to comprehend their age and where they are at, love struck teenagers but cute it's more the manorism of her speach that maybe you don't like, but other's do and then some don't, everyone is different.
Get to know her through here, you will soon feel differently over time, she is gratsious however you spell it and backs down if she feels she is wrong, and confident if she feels she is right, she has an opinion... Lord knows the challenges we went through at the beginning but on the same accord, lord knows the equality of where we both were coming from and the enjoyment of that together sharing in our own different way.
That is all i am saying on that, because maybe you may understand that unless you have been here for a while and read what she writes on other matters / relationships etc, then and only then can you gage what type of person she may be or thinks, other than that, it's called judgement, you read a few things and then judge...
I hope that all makes a lot of sense.
Now let it go and start again, i say.....
CW
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