My Sex Drive is Too High! - Page 2

**Hystorm** · 04-10-2008, 11:26 AM

Can I borrow you for a bit and rub you on the wife, or maybe I just need some hair clippings to weave to her hair or something?!

How Would It Be...is all I can come up with.
One of life’s cruel jokes, or something meant to overcome...how we are paired with seemingly the opposite in nature from our selves.

Stay Safe.

sophie1130 · 04-10-2008, 12:08 PM

Maybe you need another outlet for your energies apart from sex maybe try working out?

Thank you for your reply. I agree that is can be burdensome at times...having an sex drive that I feel I cannot control. I do have great sex with my boyfriend; the problem is when I think about it during the day I become insanely turned on.

I do workout every morning to try to channel my "energy" but it does not always work.

I seem to be most "out of control" around my menstrual cycle (ending or right after for about two to three weeks) and I can seem to think of nothing else and then thinking of sex leads me to a desire that I HAVE TO take care of or I cannot focus.

Haha! I know what you mean about pairings being off-kilter. I seem to always have a higher sex drive than anyone I have been with and they become mildly irritated.

Thank you. It makes me feel a bit more normal to hear that!

I have utilized a long commute myself and felt so naughty while odin git and then after I felt like a depraved sex maniac.

Thanks for the post!

Quote:

Originally Posted by CarolineWH

Any woman with a wonderful sex drive is one of the luckiest women in the world. What she has other women look for...I do not believe that Persistant Sexual Arousal exists. This is, in my opinion, is just a term made up for too much sex drive. Bringing your kegal muscles into operation, can work wonders with a woman's vaginal orgasms..But some women find this annoying and so a new phrase is brought up out of the blue...I could masturbate more than I do but I learn to control it....Actually I love the way I feel....

There is nothing wrong with masturbation for a woman. Do it daily if she wants to. Keeps her alive. If more married women would have done this earlier in their marriage to keep them alive they would not be disappearing with so many headaches when their husband's need them....Masturbate as long as it does not interfere with your sex life or if the two of you do it. I have enough sex drive for three people and adore it....Of course this is part of my being the happiest woman in the world...

I had not thought of including my boyfriend in masturbation. I have had him use my toys on me before and he seemed to be enjoy doing that. I just feel like I cannot wait to get home and see him sometimes and thus the workplace masturbation occurs.

I think my strong urges must have something to do with my hormones as the swings are consistent.

Thanks for the candor of your reply to me. It does make me feel better to know that I am not some type of nymphomaniac...at least I am about 98% sure I am not!

**Hystorm** · 04-10-2008, 01:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sophie1130

I had not thought of including my boyfriend in masturbation. I have had him use my toys on me before and he seemed to be enjoy doing that. I just feel like I cannot wait to get home and see him sometimes and thus the workplace masturbation occurs.

I think my strong urges must have something to do with my hormones as the swings are consistent.

Thanks for the candor of your reply to me. It does make me feel better to know that I am not some type of nymphomaniac...at least I am about 98% sure I am not!

As long as you keep it between you and your boyfriend only, you can be a flaming nimpho in my book! If only more wives were like this, the world would be a happier place, at least the husbands would be

Enjoy.

**rebellee47** · 04-10-2008, 01:36 PM

My wife and I used to use toys, I liked to use them and she wont admit she liked them but her orgasms were long and very intense with them.

I wish i could tap into some of your energy and give her transfusion of it!! About the toys, 6 months ago she had me throw them out scared something would happen and someone would find them ( the old clean underwear in case you have a wreck syndrome ) anyway I also have noticed that since we quit using them her sex drive has deminished somewhat tried to tell her that but she denied it had affected her at all . I dont know if it is not using toys or because I dont last very long cause it is days between sex and after spending 30 minutes to an hour giving her oral sex i am pretty worked up so i am down to a few minutes man

anyway dont get me wrong we have great sex WHEN WE HAVE IT! But we dont as often as I would like we maybe average 1-2 times a week or 4-7 times a month max. I could probably go 21 times a month . This is why I am trying to find out about the G-Spot and other things so that when we do have sex I can try to make it so unforgetable she will want to do it more often. We are both mid 40's and i am hoping that all I have read here about that being an awakining time for women sexually will hurry up and get here.!!

........Lee

C · 04-10-2008, 03:43 PM

There is nothing wrong with any of you.....You are all fantastic....Sex is the most wonderful pleasure in the world....I have said many times and I mean it....I would not sell what I have found for one million dollars...To know what I have known and enjoy this special place in life makes you realize that you are indeed a product of God.....Nobody could have done this by themselves...TC, C

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 04-10-2008, 04:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sophie1130

Maybe you need another outlet for your energies apart from sex maybe try working out?

Thank you for your reply. I agree that is can be burdensome at times...having an sex drive that I feel I cannot control. I do have great sex with my boyfriend; the problem is when I think about it during the day I become insanely turned on.

"Just a thought can set you of"...

I do workout every morning to try to channel my "energy" but it does not always work.

"Rid of the frustration"

I seem to be most "out of control" around my menstrual cycle (ending or right after for about two to three weeks) and I can seem to think of nothing else and then thinking of sex leads me to a desire that I HAVE TO take care of or I cannot focus.

"The same here"

Haha! I know what you mean about pairings being off-kilter. I seem to always have a higher sex drive than anyone I have been with and they become mildly irritated.

"Or they can't believe their eyes and have to work out more themselves"

Thank you. It makes me feel a bit more normal to hear that!

"Your normal" - Just in a constant state of senuality/sexuality & horny. I can relate to that.

I have utilized a long commute myself and felt so naughty while odin git and then after I felt like a depraved sex maniac.

"That was a good thrill for me, except i forgot about the truck that was approaching, almost too late"...

Thanks for the post!

"I think i enjoyed seeing how many felt the same".

I had not thought of including my boyfriend in masturbation. I have had him use my toys on me before and he seemed to be enjoy doing that. I just feel like I cannot wait to get home and see him sometimes and thus the workplace masturbation occurs.

"That's a good thing, it's when you stop thinking about him and stop doing that you have to worry"

I think my strong urges must have something to do with my hormones as the swings are consistent.

"One word can set me of"

Thanks for the candor of your reply to me. It does make me feel better to know that I am not some type of nymphomaniac...at least I am about 98% sure I am not!

" The 2% is okay, it will keep you fitter".

Sense of humor is good to....

CW

C · 04-10-2008, 05:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sophie1130

Thanks for the post!
I had not thought of including my boyfriend in masturbation. I have had him use my toys on me before and he seemed to be enjoy doing that. I just feel like I cannot wait to get home and see him sometimes and thus the workplace masturbation occurs.

I think my strong urges must have something to do with my hormones as the swings are consistent.

Thanks for the candor of your reply to me. It does make me feel better to know that I am not some type of nymphomaniac...at least I am about 98% sure I am not!

Honey, if you are a nymphomaniac, I am one too.....You are very welcome and anytime you have a question, just ask.....Take care, Caroline

**Richard S** · 04-10-2008, 06:40 PM

Once, only once in my life have I ever been party to a woman cheating, that is, she cheated with me while in a committed relationship with another man.

I was quite accidental, I did it by describing an erotic fantasy, and out of the blue I had her masturbating, all the way to orgasm, then to a second one...

This girl had been loose in the past, but I'm fairly certain I was the only man she had ever done that with.

Once that night was done, she cleaned things up with her boyfriend, and less than two years later they were married.

But... The memory of that night remains in my heart.

**metboogie** · 04-10-2008, 09:08 PM

believe me, as a man married to a woman with no sex drive you shouldn't have to look too hard to find an appreciative man...if you can't, let me know - I'll find a way to accomodate you!

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 04-10-2008, 09:22 PM

You'll have to fight over Hystorm first....

04-10-2008, 11:26 AM	#11
Hystorm Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 198	.. Can I borrow you for a bit and rub you on the wife, or maybe I just need some hair clippings to weave to her hair or something?! How Would It Be...is all I can come up with. One of life’s cruel jokes, or something meant to overcome...how we are paired with seemingly the opposite in nature from our selves. Stay Safe.

04-10-2008, 01:36 PM	#14
rebellee47 VIP Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 49	My wife and I used to use toys, I liked to use them and she wont admit she liked them but her orgasms were long and very intense with them. I wish i could tap into some of your energy and give her transfusion of it!! About the toys, 6 months ago she had me throw them out scared something would happen and someone would find them ( the old clean underwear in case you have a wreck syndrome ) anyway I also have noticed that since we quit using them her sex drive has deminished somewhat tried to tell her that but she denied it had affected her at all . I dont know if it is not using toys or because I dont last very long cause it is days between sex and after spending 30 minutes to an hour giving her oral sex i am pretty worked up so i am down to a few minutes mananyway dont get me wrong we have great sex WHEN WE HAVE IT! But we dont as often as I would like we maybe average 1-2 times a week or 4-7 times a month max. I could probably go 21 times a month . This is why I am trying to find out about the G-Spot and other things so that when we do have sex I can try to make it so unforgetable she will want to do it more often. We are both mid 40's and i am hoping that all I have read here about that being an awakining time for women sexually will hurry up and get here.!!........Lee

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04-10-2008, 03:43 PM	#15
C Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 1,002	There is nothing wrong with any of you.....You are all fantastic....Sex is the most wonderful pleasure in the world....I have said many times and I mean it....I would not sell what I have found for one million dollars...To know what I have known and enjoy this special place in life makes you realize that you are indeed a product of God.....Nobody could have done this by themselves...TC, C

04-10-2008, 06:40 PM	#18
Richard S Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: USA / California Posts: 246	Once, only once in my life have I ever been party to a woman cheating, that is, she cheated with me while in a committed relationship with another man. I was quite accidental, I did it by describing an erotic fantasy, and out of the blue I had her masturbating, all the way to orgasm, then to a second one... This girl had been loose in the past, but I'm fairly certain I was the only man she had ever done that with. Once that night was done, she cleaned things up with her boyfriend, and less than two years later they were married. But... The memory of that night remains in my heart.

04-10-2008, 09:08 PM	#19
metboogie Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 223	believe me, as a man married to a woman with no sex drive you shouldn't have to look too hard to find an appreciative man...if you can't, let me know - I'll find a way to accomodate you!

04-10-2008, 09:22 PM	#20
CHANDLERS WISH WH Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Australia Posts: 9,933 Blog Entries: 7	You'll have to fight over Hystorm first....