Seeing as long as you two have been together, in a way I can understand the sex 'getting old, and needing to be spiced up'.. but you would think he would bring it up sooner? This is actually how I found this site, my boyfriend has been wanting one for a little while, we haven't been together for a year. Which makes me wonder if he thinks it does need to be spiced up?.. Hmm.. Guys are hard to read, but maybe try discussing it, since this is a touchy thing to do. Good luck though!