Thread: Arrrghh...married man falling for me

Originally Posted by miffed23

I could easily handle that.. and to be quite brutally honest, that is what i want. Im not sure how he's react.

Thus, posing another question; would it be 'okay' (and i use okay in flippant way) if i went ahead and fulfilled that night of passion and then walked away? As he says thats what he wants....should i lay down ground rules before, such as this is going to be it, nothing else.

But how can you do this when you body weeps for more filling...When you lay in bed thinking of how wonderful he felt inside you...When all those touches make you moan...When the sexual part of you that is so awake wants more...How do you make nothing out of something....The hot joining of two people in passion that says just once will never come...You have both been brought alive......

Maybe I am talking about me long ago...A married man that used to wake me up...Stirred me to my very soul...Made me open up to him and show him all that I was as a woman....Made me love all the wonderful feelings that he gave me....How do you say good bye when you body wants that licking again and the sucking of your nipple's.....I can tell you one thing....It haunted me for a long time....But he did teach me a special part of life that I was to learn.....No regrets.....

But thinking now I could and should have been caught....He was another woman's man and it was just the pure sex that I wanted.....Sounds sick but that is the way it was.....And my friend, I was engaged....

But may I add, it just about ruined my marriage.....

Originally Posted by Richard S

Yes, that is definitely one way of handling it. Guys tend to like it when a woman says, "Yes, but here are the terms." It's the "Yes" that matters.

In general, men cheat for the sense of conquest. One night of sweet conquest can last in a guy's heart for a long time. It may even give him what he needs to go back and patch up his marriage.

Or... it may not work out like that at all and the whole thing will turn into a disaster. There is no way to know what's inside Pandora's Box until you open it.

That is what im worried about...opening Pandoras Box and him continuing to contact me afterwards. If i knew for definite that, that night would be it - then all would be okay. (again flippant use of okay)

Im assuming then, that it is a bad thing if he is opening up to me, sharing life stories with me etc? Oh, and thank god, there aren't any children involved. That would certainly be a no go area for me, hmmm, even though im willing to hurt his wife i really am a bad person.