Thread: Advice need for new sex adventure

Hello Ladies,
I am hoping someone out there can offer some advice…..

After a long romantic weekend on the Cape, my wife told me she wants to provide equal oral sex opportunities for our relationship….. WOW! I thought. As long as we’ve been married, it has always been a 90 percent to 10 percent give and get…. I give the 90 percent because I know how wonderful a feeling you get from it….. she wants to really get to an equal footing on this with me…. I want to do as much research on this as possible…. I need advice and resources on things like best techniques, semen taste and texture, how to swallow, fun games to play, easy tips, etc….. Now please don’t freak out on me for this…. I provide a great oral pleasure for her with even after climax nibbling and kissing.... makes her feel great and reassures her that I like what I’m doing… she said she wants to provide the same….. even after I release she wants to swallow and going to draw all the semen out and let me reduce in her mouth while I regain consciousness…. I know some of you may object to this... as over the top or something…. But remember I do the same for her and it works well for us…. I just want to help as much as I can….. I stay in great shape for her... eat the right things…. Drink lots of pineapple juice to sweeten my semen…… pamper her…. Romance her…. Help her around the house…. Text her sweet nothings…. Make dinners…. ETC!! Please don’t go off on me..... it’s happened in other forums…. I’m just trying to get information that will help our sex life….. I hope you can appreciate my position whether you agree with it or not…..

Originally Posted by Just-a-regular-guy

Hello Ladies,
I am hoping someone out there can offer some advice…..

After a long romantic weekend on the Cape, my wife told me she wants to provide equal oral sex opportunities for our relationship….. WOW! I thought. As long as we’ve been married, it has always been a 90 percent to 10 percent give and get…. I give the 90 percent because I know how wonderful a feeling you get from it….. she wants to really get to an equal footing on this with me…. I want to do as much research on this as possible…. I need advice and resources on things like best techniques, semen taste and texture, how to swallow, fun games to play, easy tips, etc….. Now please don’t freak out on me for this…. I provide a great oral pleasure for her with even after climax nibbling and kissing.... makes her feel great and reassures her that I like what I’m doing… she said she wants to provide the same….. even after I release she wants to swallow and going to draw all the semen out and let me reduce in her mouth while I regain consciousness…. I know some of you may object to this... as over the top or something…. But remember I do the same for her and it works well for us…. I just want to help as much as I can….. I stay in great shape for her... eat the right things…. Drink lots of pineapple juice to sweeten my semen…… pamper her…. Romance her…. Help her around the house…. Text her sweet nothings…. Make dinners…. ETC!! Please don’t go off on me..... it’s happened in other forums…. I’m just trying to get information that will help our sex life….. I hope you can appreciate my position whether you agree with it or not…..

Do you really need any advice? You sound pretty well clued up to me

Youre wife sounds fantastic, good for her telling you that she wants to provide the same amount of sexual attention to you that you give to her. A woman can get a h*ll of a kick out of turning her man on, hearing him moan when she does different things, watching him bite his lip when shes doing something that is driving him crazy....see i get excited just talking about it

So, what do you actually wanna know sweet? How to get your wife to return your favours? Sexual tips?

Thanks for the kind words... and yes she's terrific! I'm looking for the best tips and techniques:

so her mouth won't get tired
so she has control of my erection and climax
so she can work with the pre-ejaculation fluid
so she can bring me to climax as I release
so she can swallow and keep the momentum going
so she can help me reduce and completely empty

wow... I can't believe I just wrote all that... but there it is... the whole thing from start to finish..... we are a great sex team but this one area we have not mastered..... any pointers would be great!!! Thank you.

There's really no pointers that can be given to keep her mouth from getting tired, it's just going to happen. When it happens, she can take a break and while she is she can keep you stimulated with her hand(s).

Really it's all about trial and error/experimenting and that's all part of the fun.

I think the only tip there is for all of those thing is:
PRACTICE.
... well, and communication.

Also, relax...
I am not sure why you are so worried about what others will say about what you write. There is not a single thing wrong with what you asked and how you asked. We are all adults here...well, in theory.

I did find it a bit amusing that you asked for tips on how to swallow...
Unless it’s a trick question I would say, the best way to swallow is...swallow.
The cowlpers fluid (sp?) is what turns my wife off the most. That very slippery pre-ejac fluid that is secreted when a man is simply turned on.

She says it feels like oil on her tongue or something. She keeps a towel handy for that.

Enjoy.

Sure, here are a few tips...

1. Mix Kool Whip and Strawberry Yogurt in a 50/50 mix. Set the mood romantically then tell her that instead of intercourse you want to have a night of oral experimentation. The Kool Whip mix thing is nice both for the guy and the girl. Apply. Lick it off slowly. Repeat. (Important Safety Tip: never let anything with sugar in it get inside the vagina).

2. Ask her what kind of men's underwear she likes to see you in. You'd be surprised, some women have very detailed preferences. One girl I used to know liked for a guy to wear a striped shirt, and striped underwear that matched the shirt. For some reason this just made her want to suck a guy's c*ck.

3. There is a brand of soap called "Lush" that is quite nice. It's mostly for women but they have some good stuff for men too. For example when I wash with the "Rockstar" soap my wife says it makes the whole experience more enjoyable.

4. If you like to watch porn, try watching it with your wife. During the scenes where the woman is going down on the man, ask her if she sees anything that interests her. For example a lot of times you'll see the guy playfully smack the girl in the face with his erect c*ck. Some women find this to be silly and piggish, other women totally dig it. The trick is to find out which category your wife falls into.

5. Women generally like a guy who "gives good talk". So be creative in that area. The trick is to say things that are hot without just sounding like a pig. I'm pretty timid, mostly I just say "Thank you" a lot.

That's all I can think of for now... Have fun...

Originally Posted by Just-a-regular-guy

Thanks for the kind words... and yes she's terrific! I'm looking for the best tips and techniques:

so her mouth won't get tired
so she has control of my erection and climax
so she can work with the pre-ejaculation fluid
so she can bring me to climax as I release
so she can swallow and keep the momentum going
so she can help me reduce and completely empty

wow... I can't believe I just wrote all that... but there it is... the whole thing from start to finish..... we are a great sex team but this one area we have not mastered..... any pointers would be great!!! Thank you.

Im tending to lean with the majority, practice and communicate. Maybe get her to watch you masterbate, or even better (as was said) watch porn together...i think i read somewhere that women are turned on more by visual stimulation than anything else. I know that rings true for me.

She wants to do all of the above with you, thats correct isnt it? So, id suggest just crack on with it and talk the whole way through...that might deem to be a bit unsexy at the time, but the folllowing time she will know what works for you both and it will blow your mind

Good luck, keep us all updated.

These comments and suggestions were exactly what I was looking for.... it's very encouraging to read these posts..... Great on the Cool Whip.... that's a definate try.... the porn I feel funny about..... not sure what to expect with that one and don't want to possibly bring up any unrealistic expectations that might lead to performance anxiety...??.... remember they are pros.... and can always reshoot a scene.... LOL

Thanks a lot to all... please keep sending more my way if you think of any..... and yes... she does want to do this with me....