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| Sex All right Ladies- Share tips, tricks, advice, and experiences on how to spicen up that bedroom! |
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Confused and in need of advice
Recently I've been dealing with some strange feelings toward sex w/ the hubby.
I used to enjoy sex, now it's like I really want it but when it comes to doing the deed, I want to just get it over with. My hubby tries to make it good for me. I've bought toys to try and spice things up. I can reach an orgasm with a vibrator, but not the hubby. I don't know, can any one help me figure out whats going on. |
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04-24-2008, 02:35 PM
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If it "used" to work for you both, what made it work? More intimacy not just this goes with that at susan, but touching, looking at each other, kissing, intimacy, what if you were blindfolded and couldn't see what he was going to do next? And asked you " do you want to be f.........now", in a deep tone, sexual, as apposed to just trying toys and deeds? Just some thoughts, as you seem to feel you are missing something yet don't want to .... CW |
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04-24-2008, 02:52 PM
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I would love it if my hubby was more kinky. Blindfolds, tie me up, etc. But we didn't need that before.
The main thing we had, was privacy. |
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04-24-2008, 02:55 PM
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Well, regarding the blindfolds and i was going to say add a couple of extra scarfs for that bit, doesn't matter what you needed before, every adventure is a new one, exciting one and can take you back to before just as much as taking you forward to something new... I think anyway. CW |
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04-24-2008, 03:05 PM
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We have a four year old.
I guess we could give it a shot. I like new things. |
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04-24-2008, 03:17 PM
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Yes sorry, i just read your intro, welcome.
Maybe as you stated there that you really would like another child now, that you are focusing on this, and it is becoming a "deed" subconsiously... Or now that your child is 4, you feel confined a bit as she is old enough to walk in and acknowledge something so you are confining yourself to being you, or you just need some of what you write in your e-books to be reality and add them into your life. But if you like being blindfolded and tied up as an exotic adventure then why not, see if that starts it of again, at least you'll know if you just need some more adventure not just toys... There are lots and lots of threads and posts here that may point in a good direction and lots of good advice which i am sure you will get from here direct. Best wishes. CW |
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