Thread: how to talk dirty, without sounding cheesy

I need to know how to talk dirty without having to say really corney stuff! Just little things to get his juices flowing or even actions?
as long as they dont involve me rubbing his Nob on my face cos I'd end up laughing



to the guys:
whats a really sexy thing a girl can do beforehand?
and what turns you on the most?

Thats realativly easy, I know I am putty when the wife is totally in control with the empasis being on her self confidence to take control. Not just the sex mind you, but the entire build up, you undressing him, doing a small strip tease to show you mean business and are not afraid to be yourself (assuming yourself is a showgirl kicking 7-feet into the air )!
In any case, just rock his world and own his unit!!

I know you are asking how to rock his world...tell you the truth, I have never paid attention to what she does once she gets into that mode, I am totally hers and loose all interest in everything else...happens rarely in my house...usually, I have to do everything, but the times she owns the entire deed...whew momma..yea, thats what we are talking about!

Not saying guys love to be controlled by their women every time, just once in a while!

No undies,show some skin,see throughs...tease tease tease then please please please. If you want to talk dirty tell him what a big stinky beast is is. Only kidding.

When you talk dirty it is not a joke...The words of a physical body part or act of sexual love, are said with lust and feeling....You refer to them in passion....I love to talk to him like this and he loves it more than I ever knew a man could....He does not know it but it is the most wonderful turn on for me that there can be......That is besides looking at his naked body...

I never did this until 3 years ago...Took me that long to find my bad girl and pull her forward....There she proceeded to beat down the inhibited part of the woman in me and let the door open to the animal in me that was my uninhibited self.....When I broke free, it was "nobody is gonna catch me now" and they can't....I am all the wild rebel in me that I have always wanted to be and truly quite a lover.....Need I say, I am not lacking in confidence....Comes with the territory...

Being this way has been a blessing to my husband...This lusty dirty talking woman has been able to take an older man that was on Viagra for about 7 years and turn him around so that he no longer needs it...Took me three months....I became his sexual turn on instead of a pill.....Now I can humbly but proudly say, that I have now accomplished something that I never thought possible....He has been off iagra nearly 3 years....In the last two months, with some added sexuality on my part and knowing exactly what I was doing, as it was my plan....I have taken this same man and made him "no hands" sex....By this I mean that he no longer needs his hands to guide himself inside me...He is now youth...Erect and much harder. He has the confidence of a stud...He now does not hesitate taking himself out to pleasure me with his mouth and then while standing at the side of the bed reinsert himself with no hands...This is the way youth is and he has found youth.....

I believe every woman can do this to a man but it is up to them....What I have found and done all women can do....They just have to adore their man and be willing to give to him all that he deserves....They must love him and his body to death and be able to show the passion of the God's while they take him on this trip to youth...These are my feelings about my husband.......

I would hope that what I have spoken does not break any of the rules of this Forum.... I have been admonished for this and I do accept but do not fully understand.... I came on this site for one thing and that was to try and help those who need it.....This is exactly what I have tried to accomplish with this post...TC, C

Adding to what Caroline said, it really has to be something that's true for you as an individual. For example do you remember the first time you saw / played with your boyfriend's penis? Were you at home? Out on a date? At a party? Parked in a car somewhere? What do you remember most about that moment? Were you free at the time or did he have to win you away from someone else? Create your own little Penthouse Forum story and tell it to him. Build up your own sexual narrative, then draw him into it and make him feel like the star.

Well... speaking as just a regular guy.... I find when my wife talks "dirty" to me it can push me right over the edge..... sometimes I have to think about baseball to keep things under control.... guys know what I mean... I don't like the term "dirty" though because I don't think that it truely is - especially between a husband and wife.... I married a wholesome, fine, beautiful woman.... but in the bedroom a man really wants a girl who can and will do all kinds of things - raw and uninhibited. She and I don't use "4 letter words" in our everyday life, but in bed when she whispers what she wants or what she wants to do to me... WOW!

It's that raw, straight to the point, animalistic sex language that every women should master... unless you're married to a Pilgrim from Massachussets....

The bedroom needs to be a freedom zone - freedom of speach, freedom of expression, freedom to sexually explore, etc...... I truely believe that "ordinary" women can be the sex-kittens they envy - though privately.

Just my 2 cents....

Originally Posted by Just-a-regular-guy

Well... speaking as just a regular guy.... I find when my wife talks "dirty" to me it can push me right over the edge..... sometimes I have to think about baseball to keep things under control.... guys know what I mean... I don't like the term "dirty" though because I don't think that it truely is - especially between a husband and wife.... I married a wholesome, fine, beautiful woman.... but in the bedroom a man really wants a girl who can and will do all kinds of things - raw and uninhibited. She and I don't use "4 letter words" in our everyday life, but in bed when she whispers what she wants or what she wants to do to me... WOW!

It's that raw, straight to the point, animalistic sex language that every women should master... unless you're married to a Pilgrim from Massachussets....

The bedroom needs to be a freedom zone - freedom of speach, freedom of expression, freedom to sexually explore, etc...... I truely believe that "ordinary" women can be the sex-kittens they envy - though privately.

Just my 2 cents....

I will never understand why they call them "dirty" words. It must be our shame inhibition that lurks inside of each of us. Like you and your wife, these are only spoken in lust....Hot sexual passion that excite me as I release all of the inner me and give to my lover as your wife does to you......But like you, the reactions by myself and my husband are mind boggling....I love to let the animal in me out and it can bring on some of the hottest sex that we have ever known in all our married life.......Enough to take a man back years ago with just the whisper of a spoken sexual word.

I can relate more than anything to the song "Behind Closed Doors" where they speak of a woman really letting her hair down....To me this is a dirty talking and very sexual woman really getting it on....Hotter than holy living and knows her stuff.....That is what dirty talking can do to me and I truly believe any woman can do when they put all their sexual know how into it....Either that or I will admit that I am one sick puppy....TC, C

wow absolutely no one told you examples of what to say
I'd kinda like to know too

anyway
be serious
let go of what he thinks, what people would think...
say the naughty thoughts that run through your mind
narrate what you want to do to him
if you start to laugh think of how turned on he is right now and how your laughter is like nails on a chalkboard snapping him back to reality almost like you just ogt walked in on - the sensuality of the moment can be perserved if you just hold the laughter back and truely feel connected with him and let the naughty thoughts leave your mouth

also I hear men love when woman talk about how large and strong and in control his c*ck is
because its like their sword... that sounds kinda silly to me but it truly does work on the men.. they love when a woman finds it the biggest thing shes ever seen

Originally Posted by misslady66

also I hear men love when woman talk about how large and strong and in control his c*ck is
because its like their sword... that sounds kinda silly to me but it truly does work on the men.. they love when a woman finds it the biggest thing shes ever seen

You say things in passion....You are not describing his body....You tell how good it feels.....You speak of what this does to your hot body part....You tell him where this is driving you to and what you want him to do to you..You tell him that you need C.....Why would you narrate your feelings of passion???? I mean it is come on baby, F me good.......My P is dripping.....I need to be taken and then you turn into a woman....It is not a dirty talking marathon..It is erotic words used with class.....