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    Question Unusual?

    Is it unusual for a woman aged 23 (well I will turn 23 in May) to have had sex with only one person? Well.......I was with my ex for close to 8 years so that might explain it. Is it also unusal to think you can't have sex with anybody else? Just wondering what does everybody think about that.
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    I don't think there is anything unusual about it as there aren't any "rules".

    I was in my mid 30's and had only had sex with 3 people.
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    If there is a rule then I have failed miserably.....I have come in last....I have been married forever and am madly in love with him and God forbid.....I have only had one man penetrate me in my life......Honey, believe me, no regrets Take care, Caroline
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    Quote Originally Posted by mvaldez View Post
    Is it unusual for a woman aged 23 (well I will turn 23 in May) to have had sex with only one person? Well.......I was with my ex for close to 8 years so that might explain it. Is it also unusal to think you can't have sex with anybody else? Just wondering what does everybody think about that.
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    If there is a rule then I have failed miserably.....I have come in last....I have been married forever and am madly in love with him and God forbid.....I have only had one man penetrate me in my life......Honey, believe me, no regrets Take care, Caroline
    And may I add that in my opinion it is very admirable.

    As I said I only had the 3 until my mid 30's, and I had been married to 2 of them. After my divorce I doubled my count plus one, but in all honesty I wished I hadn't.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mvaldez View Post
    Is it unusual for a woman aged 23 (well I will turn 23 in May) to have had sex with only one person? Well.......I was with my ex for close to 8 years so that might explain it. Is it also unusal to think you can't have sex with anybody else? Just wondering what does everybody think about that.

    Please don't ever change...it is totally awesome for a man to know, he has a women that was not around, but exclusive to her partner!

    You have one up on a large population. Don't let our Media begin making you think you are weird for being a devoted, monogamous women

    Good on you.
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    It's more than usual, i would suspect that it will not enter your mind until you truly fall in love again and that will be the most special moment of your life.

    I do believe that where one may have been your soul mate, he may not have the "the soul mate"...

    The next man whom enters your heart may very well be as he'll have a hard time getting in there and there is something to look forward to

    Just hard to see that now.

    Sex is sex.

    Love is Love.

    And sex with love is

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    There is nothing wrong with that at all!! I am 23 and I have only had sex with one person (my current boyfriend of 2 1/2 years) and I don't see anything wrong with that.
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    I dont think theres anything unusual about that at all. I find that to really good. Also, I am sure more women wish they hadnt had sex with so many partners.I say dont change your morals. The media hypes things up so bad...girls now think they have to be with so many men by a certain age. I am 25 and have been with 3 diferent guys...some would say thats too many, others would say thats nothing at all. Do whats in your heart!
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    I am glad to know that this is not unusual/bad/abnormal. I just whish he would have been the only one in my life. I say that because, unfortuantely, we are not together anymore and I am sure someone else will come along. I hope the right one. I really don't want to be around with alot of sex partners. I just really hope to find the "right one"!!!!
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    i think thats great im only 17 and iv had a few more than 1 sexual partner but i regret most of them an wish i had waited 4 a bit b4 i lost my virginity. i would definatly prefer to been wiv 1 man.
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