Adding the Spice...

**Dollface2008** · 05-08-2008 10:59 PM

So another question I had was I'm not a real kinky person and my partner has all these things he requests to do when were hooking up like 69ing, and doggy personal favorites of mine as well as his but with my ex i used to tie him up and go down on him and lick him and tease it drove him wild, but the other night i tied my partners hands together and he had the lets call it "most explosive" climax ive ever seen him have when we were intimate and i was just wondering i love to be surprising to him because hes much more experienced then me...so does anyone have any kinky things they do with there men? that drive them wild....without being too out there such as having bowel movements on eachother (no effence if you like that but ick to me ha)

**MissGoddess** · 05-08-2008 11:26 PM

Haha! Your last statement totally cracked me up!
I'm not all that experienced [in kinkiness] either, in my opinion, but neither is he [cause were young], so it's cool. We do have handcuffs. I gave them to him for Valentine's day ;] We also have a bandana to be used as a blindfold, or to act as an extra set of handcuffs. Ohh!! Around rodeo season [I'm from Texas, ya'll.. hehe] we bought matching red cowboy hats, cause I thought they were cute. We're not hat people.. So we just have the hats in our bedrooms, looking all pretty.. I've worn mine a couple of times during our lovemaking moments. It's hott. He wears his too every once in a while. Wearing nothing but a red cowboy hat WOOHOO!! Or!!! Stilettos! Just be careful not to hurt him.. Guys think stilettos are sexy, and they are! So wear black lingerie and black stilettos or whatever color, as long as they match or go well together. I'm sure there's a lot more you can do, like whips and stuff, but.. I'm not into THAT much. That's just freaky, I think, but hey, if you like it.. By all means, go for it. I don't this helped at all.......
Hope it did. I'm gonna keep coming back to it, cause I'd also like a few tips on kinky stuff :]

**MissGoddess** · 05-08-2008 11:28 PM

I don't kknow if this helped at all*

Sorry!! I left out a few words and it sounded funny when I re-read it.

**Dollface2008** · 05-08-2008 11:34 PM

haha it did help! and yeah im not that freaky either but i do like to spice it up for him because we get so predictable after a while the tieing him up really did us good but its hard to tie him down because idnt have a bed post...which is rather annoying. cus my ex did and we had some good times with that haha ive tried stelletos before too but i was a little tipsy ad was thinking i was hot shizt haha and i injured myself and him and then he took my shoes off cus us drunk, and spike heals wasnt a good combo. haha maybe ill give it a second try sober haha

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 05-08-2008 11:37 PM

Some will say na.... lol...

Dark Chocolate, placed in a plastic cup for 2 mins in microwave, stir with a chop stick or simular, replace 30 seconds, stir again, if not all disolved, another 30 seconds. Then wait for it to be warm not hot... sounds like a recipe hey!~~

Tie the little bugger up again, rub the chocolate all over your breasts, and then on him, and eat it of, then allow him to be free to get your enjoyment as well, why not i say......

Now the top bit was a joke, as the chocolate will go hard, you use that method to make ice sticks, or heart shapes or what ever, lol.

But you can purchase chocolate used specifically for this, from shops, Target ( do you have that there?) have it as well, or else go for the whipped cream and eat a banana in front of him, slowly seductively whilst rubbing some wipped cream on yourself, and repeat the above bit about your bit, then let him go to get you....

CW

**Dollface2008** · 05-09-2008 12:54 PM

I did try the whipped cream thing and it was rather fun. and arrousing to even think back on. I would love to try the chocolate thing if my sheets wern't white! haha maybe thats fun for the bathtub to be followed up with shower sex. another personal favorite past time. Which leads me to another question...maybe is deserving of its own thread...

**Hystorm** · 05-09-2008 12:58 PM

My Absolute fav. is a body stocking with high-heels.
Make sure you get a crotchless one as nothing rots more than to have to take off the eye candy!

**FionaDiaz** · 05-09-2008 01:21 PM

Got tons of ideas!

Role-play baby!! I adore role-play..... When he is sick, rent a dirty nurse costume or wear a white garderbelt, white stockings heals and pretty underwear, and make a nurses hat out of paper (that's how I did it since I am broke!) and "nurse him back to health" hehehe

Or Hooker and John... it's easy too!

Also... one thing I do for my husband which he can't get enough of... hot tea!

I use mint tea cause I like the flavor... just make a hot drink that you love and start to give him oral! Keep a mouthful of tea/drink while giving him oral! It's amazing.

You can also switch out from hot drink to cold drink to keep things spicy for him!
(A friend of mine only likes the cold, an ex only liked the hot and my husband likes both!)

BABY OIL!! hehehe Lay down some plastic first so you don't ruin your sheets and rub each other down with tons of oil or flavored lube... everything becomes shiny and slippery and .... yay!

Also you can turn a regular board game into a naughty game! Forget poker! Try playing a game like twister! Each time you fall you remove a piece of clothing! hehehe Make up your own rules!

Or download some "sex games" offline and either memorize the rules and make the game, or use a laptop next to your bed with the game on it!

Give him a strip tease!

Hope that helps!

**Uneeklyme** · 05-09-2008 08:16 PM

I believe the real definition of kink is whatever is outside your norm. For some anal is kinky while to others its perfectly normal, toys for some are kinky, for others staples of their great sex life. If your looking for Kink then step outside your norm. If your looking for spice then Fiona gave some great suggestions.

Some others...hmmm...

Have sex in the living room in the middle of the day. Do it on the kitchen table. Go for a ride in the country and stop is some cool little secluded spot and have at it.

Give oral while sucking on an altoid.

Write an erotic story and send it to him via email then act it out. Better yet, have him send you one then act his out.

Edge each other all day when there really is no time to really complete the act until later. Take your underwear off in front of him, toss them to him, put your pants back on and leave for work. Leave him with that image of you for the day. See what happens when he finally gets a crack at you.

**oldkinky** · 05-11-2008 02:33 AM

Originally Posted by Dollface2008

So another question I had was I'm not a real kinky person and my partner has all these things he requests to do when were hooking up like 69ing, and doggy personal favorites of mine as well as his but with my ex i used to tie him up and go down on him and lick him and tease it drove him wild, but the other night i tied my partners hands together and he had the lets call it "most explosive" climax ive ever seen him have when we were intimate and i was just wondering i love to be surprising to him because hes much more experienced then me...so does anyone have any kinky things they do with there men? that drive them wild....without being too out there such as having bowel movements on eachother (no effence if you like that but ick to me ha)

We are somewhat kinky. Here are some things my wife and I do to spice things up. Mutual masturbation-using both fingers and toys. I love to see a realistic dildo go in and out of her vagina. We always watch a sex DVD during sex. We expecially like to watch group sex DVD'S. It is so erotic to watch and listen to sex during intercourse. All sorts of positions. Dirty talk. It drives me wild when she says put your big penis inside me. Oral sex of course. She loves deep kisses sharing her juices after I go down on her and she cums. She loves a mouthfull of my cum. Role reversal using a strap on. Prostate massage using a vibrating anal toy while she gives me a blowjob. Kinky sex is so hot.

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