Thread: Does my BF have homosexual tendencies?

Well, he's definetly not a neat freak or a clean freak. I mean he definetly does stuff that's considered "guy-like" you know, he doesn't shower everyday and he wears fairly nice clothes but in no way are they feminine, but he doesn't spend a large amount of time on his appearance. Oh and as far as movies, he likes things blowing up and loves watching The Ultimate Fighter and all that, so definetly masculine otherwise. The only other things is that his personality is actually pretty laid back and he doesn't act macho or egotistical at all (which is a good thing in my opinion)

He already told you he likes the 'sk8r' look and 'tough girl'. Rather than homosexual I'd say he'd rather have something more aggressive.

Stop by the local Hot Topic®, pick up a plaid skirt, a corset top and some big black boots and meet your BF at the door holding a paddle or a flogger.

he'll probably be hard before you can say "Welcome to thunderdome *****!"

I wouldn't be concerned about the clothing issue. I'm a straight guy, and I'm not very excited by lacy things. There is something appealing about t-shirts, or other clothes that are sexy without looking like they are "trying" to be sexy.

His explanation of why he likes anal makes sense. Fear of pregnancy is a big deal.

SinisterUrge may have a point. Maybe he wants the tough girl - and that could mean different things. Maybe he does want to be spanked. Or, maybe he just wants a woman who is sexually agressive - could be he feels a bit of residual guilt about sex and wants a woman who will take responsibility.

So, go ahead an put on a bandana, and a torn t-shirt and jeans, haul him off to bed and tell him what you want.

I wouldn't be concerned about his being gay unless there is some other evidence, like you've caught him in bed with a man, or he voluntarily went to see Brokeback Mountain (just kidding).

With both of you being so young and still trying to grow up, for you to consider him homosexual could be pretty far out.....

Perhaps some boredom with each other is setting in and it is time for each of you consider going a different direction and finding yourself. He is not wrong and you are not wrong.....It is just that both of your wants and desires are different .... As you age this difference will widen.......It is just part of life.....TC, C

Originally Posted by SinisterUrge

He already told you he likes the 'sk8r' look and 'tough girl'. Rather than homosexual I'd say he'd rather have something more aggressive.

Stop by the local Hot Topic®, pick up a plaid skirt, a corset top and some big black boots and meet your BF at the door holding a paddle or a flogger.

he'll probably be hard before you can say "Welcome to thunderdome *****!"

WOW...all I can say is BUYAHHH! Heh Works for me and im a girl.

My ex LOVED the ballcap and tee look. He prefered when I wore his shirts rather than sexy, lacey things and would go snake if I wore a tank top. He could barely keep his hands off and he was so not gay, bi or otherwise. Straight as they come. My current partner loves the cutesy flannel pj's look. Not all men are into the lipstick and stockings look.

Heres a test...can he sew, does he wear tights, have a friend named Bruce and lisp the word bit**? Then hes at the very least, bi.
Yes I am kidding.