Sex Tips & Advice for a Guy

**FilmNJ** · 05-18-2008 11:49 PM

Hey, I'm going to be going on a trip with my girlfriend in which we'll be alone in a hotel for 5 days (which we have no done before). She says I'm the best she's had in bed and she loves my sex, etc etc. Well I'm very confident about my sexual ability but on this trip I really want to wow her and surprise her with some new things she'll like. I have a pretty large penis 7 inches and 6.8 inches around. One of my ideas was to try a c-ring because it turns her on that I'm big and I think making it even a lil bit bigger might drive her crazy. Does this seem like a good idea or bad to you ladies. Also if any women out there have things they love that they think I should try and such, give me the ideas. I'm open to all suggestions. Thanks.

**miffed23** · 05-19-2008 06:25 AM

No, personally. C-rings are made to prolong your performance arent they? Not to make you look bigger?

You need to get your focus off your penis and onto her or else i have no advice to offer you.

Forget about your penis.

Done?

Right, my advice to make 'me' melt is as follows: -

Get some champagne on ice (obviously if youre old enough)

Take a bath

Get a saucy board game, strip pokers good.

Worship her. Dont you dare mention your penis.

Once shes naked, ask her if she would like to be gently tied up (silk scarves) and/or blindfolded. Tell her she is not allowed to touch you.

Massage her, (with oils) focussing primarily on her erogenous zones, neck, back, thighs, back of the knees, nipples...completely ignoring the vaginal / clitoral area for at least 5-10 minutes. Slowly introduce some massaging on her pubic bone, listen to her moan, keep worshipping her, kiss her, she is amazing so make her know it.

Gently and slowly insert a finger, kiss her again, tell her again not to touch you....incorporate some gentle oral, massage her g-spot, make her moan and beg you.....from here on in you can continue it anyway you want...ill get too excited it i continue

...lead her to the bath, feed her strawberries, leave her blindfold on, take it off....have fun....

Make sure you spend a lot of time massaging her, id say about 25 - 35 mins.

If you dont fancy any of this, (youre mad!) just do what suits you two as a couple, but make sure you let her know how amazing, sexy she is and how much you want her....biggest turn on ever. <------thats the main point im trying to get across.

God, i am jealous. Hotel....mmmm...

**anonymouswhitefemale** · 05-19-2008 06:53 AM

I'll be echoing the others here..

So you're **** is above average size - that's great, but now you need to forget about that. Sex isn't all about you and your penis, it's also about her.

If you really want to buy a toy of some sort, go for a powerful pellet vibrator, so that you can give her a couple of easy orgasms, rather than something to make you feel like more of a man.

Have a lot of sex BEFORE you get your willy out, kissing, foreplay, massaging, oral sex etc etc.

Yeah, so basically, there's a lot more to sex than the size of your wang.

C · 05-19-2008 11:30 AM

Why must you keep trying to WOW her???? She has already said you are the best she has ever had....That should be enough.....Let's face it...Somewhere along the line you are going to run out of ideas of what to do new with her.......and you are just plain going to wear out.....

My best advice is be yourself......That is what a woman likes....A man that is comfortable within his own body and not always trying to be someone else.....TC, C

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 05-19-2008 04:26 PM

Totally agree, forget your penis....

Obviously you want to come up with ideas to please and good for you, at least your not saying the opposite, that you don't care, just wam bam.

I also agree with the posts regarding spending "time" ..

But add a bit of romance in it whilst your at it.. She may love your sex, but as she's your woman, she will also go bananas over romance...

Rose petals scattered on the bed, package a few candles, tell her she looks sexy and beautiful in the candle light, and add in adventure...

It doesn't all have to happen in the hotel room you know...

Adventure tells a woman "you want her now", not just when you see a bed.

CW

**Uneeklyme** · 05-19-2008 05:09 PM

Some great advice here. She will already be excited at the prospect of being alone with you and experiencing this trip with you.

Toys and such are enhancing but not replacements. If she already enjoys you I would go for an add in toy such as a bullet or egg. A c-ring with a vibrating ring might be fun. Different flavored oils and lubes. Massage oils that create different sensations...like the warming oils or tingling ones.

Take your time.

I think its awesome that even tho you are sure of your sexual prowess you are still thinking of ways to please her. Keeps things exciting and in turn makes a relationship stronger when you continually share and explore.

Im jealous. So much time alone with a lover... mmmmm

Have fun!

**j.rose** · 05-19-2008 10:51 PM

Massage her, (with oils) focussing primarily on her erogenous zones, neck, back, thighs, back of the knees, nipples...completely ignoring the vaginal / clitoral area for at least 5-10 minutes. Slowly introduce some massaging on her pubic bone, listen to her moan, keep worshipping her, kiss her, she is amazing so make her know it.

Gently and slowly insert a finger, kiss her again, tell her again not to touch you....incorporate some gentle oral, massage her g-spot, make her moan and beg you.....from here on in you can continue it anyway you want...ill get too excited it i continue

...lead her to the bath, feed her strawberries, leave her blindfold on, take it off....have fun....

Make sure you spend a lot of time massaging her, id say about 25 - 35 mins.

I think this women knows what she's talking about. Iv only had a couple of guys do this very erotic.