Thread: Tantric sex

Originally Posted by Uneeklyme

I personally tend to get bored with the tantric dialog. Not to say that sexual energy, awareness and bliss are not attractive but the religious conotations in tantric practices turns me off to it. Physically it reminds me of yoga. Not the positions so much as I imagine the instructer sitting at the head of the class talking in a mono tone kind of chanting... breath... feel your muscles relax... look into your partners eyes and soul... take them into you... explore the light holding your partners hand... This tends to make me go uhg and turn the page.

I agree we need to connect with our partners and this connection tends to heigten sex and sexual pleasure but I feel that love and respect are the driving force behind this.

Anyway, I personally am not into or up for tantric sex or practices. Seems like alot of work to take something out of sex we should already have just being with our lovers. Sex is very physical. Tantric practice (IMO) is to focused on the spiritual side of sex and honestly, that bores me. This is just me though, I know many people love the tantric practices and swear by them. Im glad it works for them and more power to them.

We have no robes, dialogue, candles or anything else.....Just a new awareness.....I just wrote my thoughts on what has happened to me...I found myself.......If I am spiritual, it was only in the giving of the inner me to my husband....I never knew her before....TC, C

Originally Posted by CarolineWH

We have no robes, dialogue, candles or anything else.....Just a new awareness.....I just wrote my thoughts on what has happened to me...I found myself.......If I am spiritual, it was only in the giving of the inner me to my husband....I never knew her before....TC, C

Yes, I understand the logistics of tantra. Just saying that it makes my mind wander to these images. Nothing wrong with being spiritual or not, just that I find that part of it boring to/for me. Not to say that the teachings are not useful tools and I do agree with some of its philosophy. Mostly the need for connecting with ourselves then our partners in all ways, not just physical.

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

Except for that quote above.... that part i would agree with the method, and in holding back your orgasms, seems to me this spells longer sex, much longer......and i um, kind of um, like that idea..... very much...

Yep, im with CW on this...its the main thing that drew me to tantra....that and delaying orgams to please my man - it would make me feel very powerful....leaving a mind blowing orgasm inprinted in his mind.

Originally Posted by Uneeklyme

Yes, I understand the logistics of tantra. Just saying that it makes my mind wander to these images. Nothing wrong with being spiritual or not, just that I find that part of it boring to/for me. Not to say that the teachings are not useful tools and I do agree with some of its philosophy. Mostly the need for connecting with ourselves then our partners in all ways, not just physical.

I didn't read about the logistics...I sensed from the little that I read what she was saying to me...I don't want to be somebody that I am not...I was told this because a woman found this from what I had written.......Maybe this afternoon I will add more to my Tantra blog....After my husband and I have been sexual my mind is so awake....As of this minute it is bursting with knowledge....But I must go there with guided wording....May I say this to all women who may be reading this....The orgasm that a woman can receive, this is after hot foreplay, at the end of the bed with her legs wound around his neck and his capability of pleasuring her breasts as he is penetrating her, is mind boggling...This way a man enjoys the pleasures just watching her orgasm and thrill to this slow and sexual mating....Here a man can leave her for a few seconds to orally pleasure her and insert himself again before he ejaculates and take her to heaven....To me this is what Tantra is....The slowness of loving.....The heat in the foreplay....The knowing of your body and the womsn leaving this behind and going to heaven...It is in these places of lust that I find the true woman who I am inside me......I don't know maybe I won't add more...Maybe they all know already....TC, C