What is sexy?

**shweedart** · 05-24-2008 04:25 AM

Id love to exude sexual confidence and all around sexiness for my boyfriend but i just dont have a clue where to start! he says he knows i can do it, that ive got everything i could possibly need to feel sexy but i just dont!

So Ladies, tips on body language, movement, speach! anything to give him a shock

**Ushdui** · 05-24-2008 04:38 AM

Have you asked him what you could do, if he knows you can do it?

Movement.. Take things slow. Don't rush, just be slow and sensual. When you walk, take pride in yourself. Sway your hips, stand straight and hold your head high.

.. I guess what I'm trying to get at is: Overall, just have confidence. It can be difficult, but it does make a huge difference.

If a confident, self assured woman isn't one of the sexiest things on the planet, then I'll stab myself in the face.

**Fallen1** · 05-24-2008 04:52 AM

Originally Posted by Ushdui

.. I guess what I'm trying to get at is: Overall, just have confidence. It can be difficult, but it does make a huge difference.

If a confident, self assured woman isn't one of the sexiest things on the planet, then I'll stab myself in the face.

I wouldn't go as far as stabbing myself in the face .... maybe just do a little more research instead. But you don't need to you are absolutely correct.

I've seen it happen one to many times. A girl that maybe isn't blessed with the best of looks but she carries herself well, her "head high" with confidence and a smile. She always seems to get the attention.

Aside from confidence, maybe you could try a sexy outfit. Mind you I'm not talking the trashy/sl*tty look (excuse my language), but something classy sexy.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 05-24-2008 05:22 AM

Well apart from the above, very true.

What does HE do to make you feel sexy?

Seems to me he is throwing out lines , hook line and sinker, for you to act?

But you know a man can make a woman feel confident to, with words, that makes her understand she IS SEXY...

Perhaps you need to give a bit back there?

HUn, your right.. But you know, you need to tell me what you love about me and what makes you feel sexy around me as well....

It works both ways..

CW

**SorridLives** · 05-24-2008 06:10 AM

Originally Posted by shweedart

Id love to exude sexual confidence and all around sexiness for my boyfriend but i just dont have a clue where to start! he says he knows i can do it, that ive got everything i could possibly need to feel sexy but i just dont!

So Ladies, tips on body language, movement, speach! anything to give him a shock

Answer:

1) Be turned on to sex and sexual things.
2) Invest in some lingerie he likes. Accentuate the positive!
3) Be willing to try new things, if you are comfortable with those things.
4) Be eager for sex.

Now, you will be one hot Babe!

**anonymouswhitefemale** · 05-24-2008 08:20 AM

Sure, confidence always helps..

This might be personal to me, but don't just move around like a normal respectable person in their every day life, use your hands when you move, crawl (I find it totally hot when a woman crawls up to me), be assertive in your sexuality (at least in that you want it) - forget about everything society expects of you. Become an animal. Hunger for his sex. stick you bum in the air rubbing your clit and beg him to enter you... etc etc. Actually desire to perform oral sex on him.

Some time he's not expecting it, ie, sat at the dinner table, go behind him, take his hands in yours and bring them behind the chair, and handcuff him to the chair, gag him with a silk scarf or whatever, maybe tie each of his legs to the chair legs, and suck him off. Depending on how study the chair is and how good your balance is, ride him. Probably on the very top of the seuxal desires list for me is for my woman to act like she is hungry for my sperm....

Obviously, sexy clothes are good, even trampy trashy sexy clothes can be good... I go through phases of what I find sexy, so try to be clued into what he likes... At the moment I love torn clothes, a bit cave girly, like you've been out battling the elements rather than just come home from a cushy office job.

So there's a completely subjective answer for you, you really need to know him and know what he wants.

**SorridLives** · 05-24-2008 09:48 AM

Originally Posted by anonymouswhitefemale

Sure, confidence always helps..

This might be personal to me, but don't just move around like a normal respectable person in their every day life, use your hands when you move, crawl (I find it totally hot when a woman crawls up to me), be assertive in your sexuality (at least in that you want it) - forget about everything society expects of you. Become an animal. Hunger for his sex. stick you bum in the air rubbing your clit and beg him to enter you... etc etc. Actually desire to perform oral sex on him.

Some time he's not expecting it, ie, sat at the dinner table, go behind him, take his hands in yours and bring them behind the chair, and handcuff him to the chair, gag him with a silk scarf or whatever, maybe tie each of his legs to the chair legs, and suck him off. Depending on how study the chair is and how good your balance is, ride him. Probably on the very top of the seuxal desires list for me is for my woman to act like she is hungry for my sperm....

Obviously, sexy clothes are good, even trampy trashy sexy clothes can be good... I go through phases of what I find sexy, so try to be clued into what he likes... At the moment I love torn clothes, a bit cave girly, like you've been out battling the elements rather than just come home from a cushy office job.

So there's a completely subjective answer for you, you really need to know him and know what he wants.

I think you are right that it is a personal answer and personal to you. You are also right that you have to know the man and what he wants. In general, sexy clothes and lingerie are a good start....though some of you like black and leather, some like white and lacy, and some like red with holes in strategic places. There again....personal.
My guy would never want to be tied up! People are all different...

**mosach** · 05-26-2008 03:58 AM

The answer is pretty simple. Analyze the word, "sensual". All you have to do is feed your man's senses, and when you are at it, make sure that it lasts for a while so that the suttle but sublime messages that are being sent out, are captured and registered by the desired target.

Slow his world down for him.

If your are moving, move slow. (let him see it)
If you smell good, make sure you are there for at least a minute or two.
(an upfront hug would do wonders here).
Speak slow in a constant melodious tone, and shock him once in a while with purr/moan or two. (Wake him up to it, slowly).
Body Language especially your hands, (we are always looking at your hands.) and longer eye-contact phases.
Don't just look away when you have to; drag your eyes away from him with a lingering provocative glance.

and so on....you know the drill.

Hope this helps.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 05-26-2008 04:08 AM

Originally Posted by mosach

The answer is pretty simple. Analyze the word, "sensual". All you have to do is feed your man's senses, and when you are at it, make sure that it lasts for a while so that the suttle but sublime messages that are being sent out, are captured and registered by the desired target.

Slow his world down for him.

If your are moving, move slow. (let him see it)
If you smell good, make sure you are there for at least a minute or two.
(an upfront hug would do wonders here).
Speak slow in a constant melodious tone, and shock him once in a while with purr/moan or two. (Wake him up to it, slowly).
Body Language especially your hands, (we are always looking at your hands.) and longer eye-contact phases.
Don't just look away when you have to; drag your eyes away from him with a lingering provocative glance.

and so on....you know the drill.

Hope this helps.

Not, definately not going to agree.