I have this problem where I can't orgasm when I'm intimate with my boyfriend. I've never had an orgasm from fingering, sex, oral, anything. I can get myself off with clitoris stimulation but that's it! I'm extremely tight so my partners slip out easily. I don't know how to loosen up. Are there any tips? Will it come with time? I love to have sex but my partners are always disappointed that I don't orgasm. Sometimes I fake it to make them feel accomplished. I don't know what's wrong with me.

Please don't fake, if you do they will never figure out what does work - and will feel lied-to if / when they find out. If you let your current partner know that you never orgasm during sex, maybe he will work hard to be the first to succeed.

If you aren't too shy, let him watch while you get yourself off - he will learn what you like, and it is a major turn-on for a lot of men. Or, you can stimulate yourself while you ride him - again he can watch and eventualy figure out what works for you.

I think you're right. I never felt comfortable faking it but my ex would never listen to I just had to get it out of the way. I have told my current boyfriend that I have never orgasmed. He seemed surprised and sad too. He has been trying harder and come close! But no cigar yet. I'll take your advice and see if he wants to watch me to see what I do. Thank you so much.

I just wanna say to rcoreyus - I fake cause they might be doing what does work but its my body thats not gonna orgasm again - it does what it wants but I'm still turned on and hes doin the right thing so fake orgasms aren't alllll bad

You might want to try some lube to help with your guy 'slipping out' - It may also make sex more enjoyable for you. Try Euros, it's a nice brand
Sounds to me like you need to relax and feel more comfortable with yourself sexually. Everyone here gave you great tips. Good luck!

I definitely need to find some confidence and get more comfortable. These tips were great though. I can't wait to see him again!

Get *him* to do what you do yourself to orgasm. He might be able to do it for you during intercourse. You can also stimulate yourself during intercourse too!