Thread: Too Wet

he doesnt have this problem? lol no seriously i have the same problem but its not a problem my boyfriend and i actually both enjoy it. i do understand because after sex with my man the sheets are seriously really wet. everytime. but i dont know what to do as far as how to turn it down. just try wiping it up a little bit with a cloth. just dont over dry it.

Yes I'm one of the wet girls! and my boyfriend loves it, - knows he's doing something right I guess, it makes him chuckle every time So instead of a wet t-shirt competition we could have a .......

Big up to all the soaking sistas out there!

this happens to me too. and it didn't start happening until i started dating the guy i'm with now. it sucks! i always feel like it's gross and worried about what he's thinking.
i try to "dry off" when i can but i always have to hide it because, honestly, how embarrassing! one time we tried something that worked really well (and kept the sheets clean)

It's a mixture of scissors and spooning. Get into the spooning position and then weave your legs through his (so you have a leg in between his and he has one in between yours). usually it can be hard for him to get in you this way, but since you're so lubricated it doesn't matter! that position was pretty amazing (and you have to brace yourself on the bed too!)...then he tried something where he slowly came almost all the way out, and then went back in really fast...mind-blowing!

Pretty much, we just started to try to find ways to take advantage of it because being that naturally lubricated sucks sometimes but it does enable you to do things you normally have difficulty doing.

...The shower is always perfect because you have no idea how wet you are!

I do have the same problems as all who have posted here. I find it mostly disturbing when I am in the act. I go from so-so wet to completely soaked. I normally have to wipe down every 5 minutes. There is no position that can control this and I am convinced that it has something to do with being with a sexually attractive mate. I felt this in the beginning with my ex husband and after say 6 or 8 months it was gone and I had to use the lubricants. It is very annoying because being that wet you can not feel anything not unless the male has something to sop up the wetness.

I just turned 25 yesterday. I have been with my bf a year and a half. I am having a problem getting to wet during sex. I try to wipe off and orgasm first so I am not aroused when we have vaginal intercourse. I also turn the fan on. He has a huge problem with me being so wet. He will hardly touch me down there and forget about oral sex. I get so wet I am dripping. Iv been to the doctor and nothing can be done. I am really frustrated because he ends up going limp because of me "feeling loose" its OK when I'm not that wet but its something I feel I can't control. This is having a huge impact on myself, the way I feel about my "womanhood" and my self esteem is getting really low. We had sex last night and I end up having to do oral on him or doing anal sex to please him. I was persistent last night having him try vaginal intercourse after I wiped off and he was not interested..he just told me to get him some ibuprofen and he would go to bed..in a sarcastic type manner.....I am just so tired of this it makes me not to want to have sex.

This may be pitifull but I have this problem and I have found that during sex all you can do is keep a handtowel handy to dry off with in between and during the day wear tampons.

How sad for Sepultra. Ladies, personally speaking I gotta tell ya...HUGE TURN ON for me. My first serious relationship (7yrs) was like most of you. During fellatio she would literally be dripping on my shins (talk about an ego booster). I absolutely loved going down on her, but it was at least a year before she was fully comfortable with cunnilingus as she was always preoccupied with thoughts of my being turned off by her excessive secretions. Trust me, it wasn't about foreplay or trying to make her come...I just like to play (edited). Hour long oral sessions were a pretty clear indication I was lovin' what I was doing. Finally being comfortable with her little water park is when she started to orgasm. One year and we had arrived. Climaxing orally was sure thing for her but intercourse was a different story. The best position (guys will like this) was from behind. Her flat out on her tummy with legs together. I would be straddling her, doing what came naturally. It was by fluke (during a lengthy session and nearing exhaustion) I laid on top of her, ran my hands under her arms and grabbed her wrists. When I pulled myself toward the headboard my unit would stimulate her Go Zone (G Spot we learned later). That's the day we created a monster and this brought about a whole new issue.

I know we were one of those fortunate couples in that we did what we did in bed because we wanted to. Not because "I'll do it because you want me to" (nothing worse than fellatio from a partner that's not into it) guys can tell just as well as women can and ya...some dudes don't give a , just as long as they come...but I digress.

Each of us would become more turned on as the other became more turned on so when my girlfriend started getting there I'd lose it. It was many sessions later I could hold off long enough to make her climax during intercourse. Getting there was a blast. She would wet the bed like nobody's business so we'd keep a towel or two underneath us (no big deal). I can see for those of you dating, this would be awkward at times. Be up front with the dude. Any partner worth keeping is the one without the hang ups. If he or she has a problem with your wetness...forget'm.

Originally Posted by Stone

No such thing as too wet. This topic does not compute in my male mind.

well... on the subject in general... so relieved to know I'm not alone!
(see women don't talk about everything lol )
- yes comforting to know there are males out there who admit it doesn't matter, in fact it is preferred... and doesn't even compute in the male mind.

But - I'm tired.
I out sex, out work, out live men... It's not a competition... but if you do something bigger than they do. Enjoy life, passion, sex, love etc etc and do it well - they get threatened.... and then you hear.... you're too this... you're too that... and "you're too wet" gets thrown in for good measure of insult.

Ego, and self esteem take a big hit. Especially when - like in my case - you've had to work hard at keeping yourself here - alive, functioning...

So - dunno about any of you... but I shut down, I withdraw from dating.
Relationships become short before they get too involved and I become too something. And so I am now in my 30's and tired... is he out there? The man who can handle a woman who just loves to live?

And gets too something???