Hey girls here's a news flash for you.

We have ALL the organs necessary for orgasm. It's as simple as that. A lot of women have been taught otherwise, and it just aint true. You need to realize you've got what it takes. Rub that thing till something happens. Thinking about a sexy man helps, too. Then once you do climax with your husband, oh mama look out. Hope that helps.

"Rub that thing till something happens" hahahah and just how long would you reccomend then? 10 mins 20? an hr? as none of that makes the slighest bit of difference for me, last night he went down on me and was there for about 45 mins, before i gave up and dragged the poor man up for air! so then we carried on and i got on top of him, (something i purely do for his benefit) and then stil nothing after another 20 mins of that, and then i let him do it his way and it was over then for him in a few mins, so i still stand by the fact that i dont think it is a natural thing for us women, its just plain to much hard work for not a lot of benefit from it.

Do sexy men turn you on?

I think it's a strange one, in that I'm not sure women really had orgasms back in the day where the only sex that happened was alpha males dominating some cave women or whatever, as I can't see purely animal (often forced) sex (in early stages of evolution) really doing anything for the woman....

So evolutionarily speaking I'd say men have enjoyed sex more than women, but nowadays I think it's turned the other way round quite honestly.

ok tell me whats being turned on then as i realy wouldnt know if i ever have been

Nothing has turned us off. We have turned ourselves off. We became too civilized...We became afraid to show who we are...We became a lady instead of giving in to our sexual side of life...We became our Mother's over and over and over until we don't know how to let it loose....But God help the man who has one of these hot women that knows how to let it loose....He is the lucky man that lives in lust the rest of his life...

Just my thoughts but very happy smiles as I write this....Caroline

Ok let me try this. When you see a man who is very appealing in both looks and personality, like, I don't know, George Clooney, just to use one example, does your heart beat faster? Does your stomach feel funny? Do you feel anything pleasant at all down there between your legs, however faint?

short answer? nope nothing goes on at all. i just see what i see and thats it.