nope definately not into women!! lol doen the therapy route and that was a waste of time she had us doing sensate focus which i hated it gave me panick atacks but she never listened to us tell ing her that so after doing the sensate for 6 months and never making any progress we stopped going

I don't know, girl. Just hang in there with your husband he sounds like a good guy.

yes he is, but after hanging in there for27 yrs of being together then just how long would you say was reasonable to feel something from having sex with him?

Sounds like it could be hormonal. Have you been to a medical doctor.

yes i have had all the tests they can think of and they all come back normal whatever that might be? however they did try giving me testosterone implants for 9 months an d i had to ask in the end what it was meant to do

Testosterone is what gives you a sex drive. Men have a whole lot more than women, but we have some. Otherwise there would be no desire for sex whatsoever.

well it never made a single bit of difference at all to me, other than having 3 cuts and now got scarring on my tumy from the implants

Don't know what to tell you. I just know that for me personally psychology is the biggest part of it. I really enjoy looking at handsome men. It makes me feel good to look at them. Cause I know they've got what I don't. And what they've got makes me feel good. Then my imagination starts to wonder what they would look like naked and I feel sexually aroused. That's all I know.