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Old 06-29-2008, 05:51 PM   #11
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I neglected to add that you have to be in a high state of arousal to squirt.... So with this in mind a woman may think that she can control it but it is just the state of sexual readiness that she is in...I believe it is her sexual partner that controls her feelings...
I totally agree with this... If your "sexual partner" can bring everything out of you, you will be totally arroused, in total trust of that person, no inhibitions, no boundries and willing to go where ever he takes you.

I think also, the reason why we can do it ourselves, is if we previously, or presently have/had someone whom really let the wild child out of us and consequently, sub-conciously that person comes to mind, or those feelings that we had do as we learn more about ourselves.

Your next partner may not cut it, in that department, early in the piece, rather later in the piece, but if he does, your mind will wander back to where you are at, so possibly you will in-deed let go.

But let's face it. If that partner does in fact make you feel total sexual desire, no inhibitions, not just sexual, then he created that, and will know all that goes with that, so fear doesn't need to set in....

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Since I started squirting, at an early age, I have squirted with every orgasm....

Oh wait, I'm a guy....
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Old 06-29-2008, 06:38 PM   #13
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Since I started squirting, at an early age, I have squirted with every orgasm....

Oh wait, I'm a guy....
LMAO...

Well you do, in your own way you are correct.....

10 Points do not collect, just pass go.............

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I feel that if a man really pleases you more than you expect, you will let it go whether you want to or not. The first time I squirted I was just kissing the guy. He did not touch my breasts or anything but his kisses were incredible! My orgasm was so hard I could not hardly breath. He asked if I was ok and I could not speak. I just shook my head. Since my dress was soaked I told him I needed to go home. He never commented on the big wet spot on his seat. I was so embarrassed, I ran into the house as soon as he stopped the car. Good luck with control.
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I think I may be getting confused by all this Someone above said squirting is not cum, but ejaculate and I was wondering what the difference was between the two?

For me, when something (a dildo, my finger, my boyfriends finger or penis) is caressing against the inside of me as I orgasm I squirt a little clearish, slightly white, mostly tasteless, odorless fluid, probably 1/2 a teaspoon or less. If it is just me using my finger, I can feel it slide past my finger and squirt sometimes on to my inner thigh.

With dildo or his penis I feel it happening inside me but I just get the wetness inside it doesn't project. Is this female ejaculate or something else entirely? Doesn't happen during clit only stimulation.
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Also, can i get a mans perspective on squirting? Is it a turn on? Would it freak you out a bit?
I think its a HUGH turn on!!! It doesn't freak me out in the least.. I would also think other men would think the same.

Remember all men want to please there women sexually. Thats why there are so many drugs Internet sites, books geared to enhancing a mans sexual performance. So it goes without saying if a man was able to make his girl ejaculate then I'm sure he would be more happy for himself then his lover. or maybe I'm just too ego-centric.

However, to be honest if I was more inexperienced I would wonder if I was just peeded on. So I recommend you educate your lover on what just happened... After your nap ofcourse.

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ok, hmmm, im so confused!!

can every single woman on this planet squirt?

cos i never have...
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We all have the anatomical capability to do so, but some women haven't discovered HOW to do it yet.
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Old 10-26-2009, 08:36 AM   #19
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We all have the anatomical capability to do so, but some women haven't discovered HOW to do it yet.

well, please enlighten me as to HOW? im really interested in this, theres so many different points of view... its crazy...

HOW CAN I 'LEARN' TO SQUIRT?
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well, please enlighten me as to HOW? im really interested in this, theres so many different points of view... its crazy...

HOW CAN I 'LEARN' TO SQUIRT?
For most women....they tense up their PC muscles leading up to and at the moment of orgasm.

Those who can squirt can relax their muscles at orgasm and can bear down or "push" (as if you are trying to have a bowel movement) fluid out.
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