Yeah, hopefully it will all go well

I agree. She could be doing it for his viewing pleasure and turning him on turns her on...but she doesn't want to go as far as sharing. Besides, that opens up a whole other can of worms.
I have thought about a MFF threesome as a fantasy (with my husband) to please my husband and see him turned on by it in the fantasy. The thought of doing it for real and opening a can of worms is never going to happen! If a couple has a MFF threesome, that opens the husband up to thoughts of having sex with that other woman alone, without his wife, IMO. I have heard that is a pitfall of MFF threesomes....especially if that person is local to your area or someone you know! Nope. Not happening!

What kinda sux about a threesome is people in the couple tend to make it all about them and overlook the fact that the third is a real live human being with feelings, needs and wants as well. If your looking for someone to bang and not have involved then stay aways from the closeish friends unless you plan on dealing with their feelings on the subject (before and after) as well.

Threesomes can be fullfilling and wonderful and awsome and great experiences. They can also be the worst decision a couple ever makes. Jealousy is a huge reason to NOT have a threesome. If there is any jealousy I would try and work out what the issue is there before adding another person.

If a couple can get past all that then I say go for it. Make up the "rules" so to speak and make sure all involved are completely aware of them. Discuss comfort zones and boundaries. Once all this is in play and you find yourself smak in the middle of the human sandwich... No matter how tempting to stray, stick to the rules. Especially the first time. Even if there is encouragement from the other parties to alter or disreagard a rule...Dont. The heat of the moment can cloud judgement. You dont want what changed during the actual deed to bite you in the a** after. Once all is said and done, reconnect with your partner by yourselves. Talk about what your feeling even if its not good. Dont hold anything back or leave anything out to fester and come up later.

One last thing... as unfair as some people think it is for you to be in a threesome and not be able to have full on penetration with the new girl... that's ok. If that is your comfort level or your girlfriends then so be it. If you don't think its fair and cant stick to the rule then you probably shouldnt be in a threesome. Its whatever works between you, your girlfriend and the third and dont be pushed into all or nothing. All or nothing doesn't work for everyone.


USE CONDOMS/DENTAL DAMS AND STAY AWAY FROM CO WORKERS heh