My guy works away and is comming back this week after almost 6 weeks.

We have an amazing sex life and can't keep our hands off each other when he is home but I just want some ideas to make it really special.

I usually get new lingerie anyway and will do this again.

Anyone have any ideas to make him really blow his mind. Was thinking of something role playing etc.

thanks tt

Sexy lingerie is always a plus!! Get something he hasnt seen.

My husband likes role playing. We play teacher and bad cop. He really likes it when we play teacher....he cums alot faster when we role play. He gets really excited. Dress up liket the teacher or student and play out the part....

Ummm...we add other women to our sex life.....its fun and works for us but that is just us..not reccomending it for you to do unless you both decide on it....


Just try and play the parts out to their fullest potential and he will be a happy man!!

If you think he might like role-playing (and a lot of people do), any idea what sorts of things he likes. There are endless scenarios:

Sultan and the new harem girl - with her hands bound so she doesn't cause any trouble.

The leather-clad succubus (female demon) who sucks the life out of helpless men, leaving a withered exhausted corpse.

The bad school girl who acted up in class, and needs to be properly punished.

Captive of the amazon princess.

Whatever.

Have an ilicit affair - with him - at a nearby sleazy hotel.

Physically - is there anything he has hinted he would like that you haven't tried yet?

Yes, try and figure out what 'role' he is into.....work on that one.

I like the having an illicit affair in a hotel room! Thanks for the idea!!

You could go to a bar, separately, and make eye contact, flirt, etc... and then make plans to go back to a hotel for wild fun!!

If it were me, and I 'usually bought sexy lingerie' I would break the norm and not do that this time, before it becomes too predictable....so instead, id go underwear free, or wear just hold ups.

I love rcoreyus' idea of the forbidden affair.

Is your man coming back to your house? Or are you meeting him / picking him up from somewhere?

Wherever you have that initial meeting, make things suggestive and sensual from that moment...for example, if he is coming straight to the house...get yourself 'baby-oiled-up' wearing only your hold ups and leave a trail of erotic polaroids from the front door to the bedroom / lounge / washing machine (or wherever you want the action to begin )

Make each polaroid more explict as he gets closer to you, for example start with a picture of you fully clothed....finish with one of your thong on the bedroom floor...thats rather mild....use your imagination

Have fun!!!

Or the Disabled Toilet if the place is not packed...

I didn't say that.

CW

Thanks guys

Some really great ideas here. I am picking him up from the airport so may go under wearless and pass him my underwear as we got in the car. I did this once when we went out for dinner at a very good restaurant and told him when the main meal was just about to arrive, It drove him nuts and we didn't make it to the dessert, well in the restaurant anyway lol.

I also love the ideas of the pogressively naked polaroids, may save this one when he comes home from a day at golf. Also the allised afair thing will drive him wild. We are going to a holiday down south so I could go to the bar by myself and role play and let him pick me up and take me back to the hotel.

We haven't really role played yet but just after we met we went to a naughty school girls party and this seemed to really do it for him so I think this would be a good place to start.

As for anything he has hinted at but we have not done together yet, he has never tried anal sex and is very excited by the idea. I have tried this in past relationships and he really wants to do it but is very nervous. I guess he is a 46 yr old anal virgin. We have made baby steps towards it digitally and toys on each other but he seems nervous to take the plunge, so to speak. when we moved in together, about 8 mth ago, I was packing up the rest of his house, as he was away working, and stumbled upon his porn collection which was almost entirely about anal.

We have talked about doing it many times and I would love to help him explore this fantasy but he seems scared, not sure if it is because he knows I have done it before and he is feeling inexperienced.

Any tips on how to get him in the right mood? I thought about putting on some of his porn for us to watch together. He is almost ten years older than me but less sexually experienced and a bit English/conservative.

I also thought about on the way home from a night out slipping my panties off while he is driving. we have just bought a new luxery car though and I wouldn't want to have to explain a crash under those circumstances to the insurance company lol.

Thanks for your tips so far, keep them comming.

tt