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    so yesterday i was hanging out with my friend christina. she invites this kid mark over so she can have sex with him but he says he will only have sex with her if i give him a blowjob. at first i refuse. but then christina gets mad at me for not doing it.. do you think that she is wrong.
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    I think the situation is wrong. Whatever floats your boat i guess....

    But, yes, being pressurized into doing something that you dont want to isnt ethical.
    “As you regonise that you already own the wholeness you seek, and no one outside you can give you more than you already are, dysfunctional situations will evaporate like bad dreams exposed to the morning sun.”

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    Haha... Erm...

    Ok, I don't know what to say...

    It sounds like you're both entirely gullible, and this guy saw his opportunity to manipulate you both... Fair play I guess.

    This situation is just too ridiculous to take seriously, sounds like you all need to grow up (I'm guessing you're about 14 years old?)

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    I'm surprised you haven't done it already. If you really have to ask this and can not come up with on your own what the correct answer should be, then maybe you need to ask one of your parents for the answer.

    I sure wish that I had a friend like yours when I was in junior high, or you even.

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    Let me ask you this question...

    If your friend asked you to jump of the bridge with her, would you?

    Doubt it.. Especially if there are sharks at the bottom of it.........

    He was a shark, and she is not your friend.

    Simple.

    Never, do anything you don't want to do, to ensure that your "friend" stays friends with you, as she won't be returning the favor and you will my friend end up in worse trouble as this boy and other's run around possible and tell all their other friends.

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    This is by far the silliest thing I've ever heard. Why would she want to have sex with someone who wouldn't have sex with her unless you blew him? My brain is exploding.

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    WELL!????

    1. She is not a good friend. Friends do not force each other to selfish things i.e. it would have benefited her, not you.

    2. Never do anything against your will. Bad experiences tend to embroided into our brains and are hard to forget. So try to avoid such, especially if they are personal and/or sexual.

    3. You sound young. My opinion/advice: keep sex for your hubby. It is a powerful santuary and personal space that can give you satisafaction for the rest of your life. As I know it, it is most satisfying with one person. Ask Caroline WH (my heroine).

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    This thread is 12 months old, OP has not returned to reply, please read the top left hand side corner of threads, pertaining to whether they are current or not and advice helpful or not.

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