This looks like the perfect thread to ask this question..
We are married for 38 years and I am 68...so who services who? Does the woman serve her man or the other way around? Is she getting more pleasure than I am or the other way around and I get more pleasure?
We have a signal set up that when she is in the mood I know it so I take care of he desires, I can get in the mood in a matter of minutes, and if she took care of every time I was in the mood she would be worn out :-) When we make love I enjoy it immensely, it's hard to imagine that she feels the same when I am thrusting. So I am wondering if she enjoys it as much as I do. If she isn't in the mood for a while I can take things in stride and enjoy it myself. I can't last long enough for her to climax so she does that before we have sex.
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