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    Junior Member Derek78787878 is on a distinguished road
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    I was talking about length around in the previous post btw.
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    Well hello there big boy...
    Sounds like it probably is a size issue, I just got the tape measure out to see how big 8" looks!!! I have had the same problem in the past, although not often enough I must say. Seriously though, what you should do is introduce some smaller toys (or bottles haha) and gradually work up to yourself. Big is good but pain is not.
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    I'm tending to agree with maz33..

    Your past women, may have had more intercourse, so your a good lover to those women, this lady was a Virgin.

    She also may if i can say, feel that she is aware that you have had past lovers, and feels also inadequate, scared.

    Your job is to make her feel that she is "the one" if she is, and that those past relationships don't count.

    She gave herself to you.

    However, you as maz33, said, may be bigger than most, and consequently, it ain't going to be the same with a lady whom is trying to come to terms with letting herself go, feeling, and being her first man, let alone that you state 8", as your width birth.

    Don't put preasure on her at all.. Treat her like she needs to be treated, special, she gave to you.

    Forget the others, no offense, so what?

    And, let her ease into it....

    Coke bottle? lol... But i get that drift.

    I think a lot has to do with mind set, so make her feel that she is all you want, all you wanted and past relationships mean nothing to you, because she is special and loved, if her mind is on, oh oh, like yours in, no trouble before, problems before, it aint going to happen anyways.

    Remember, your dealing with a soul, not just a body.

    Just my thoughts.

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    Ummm, HELLO??

    Did you read my post at all??

    If you dont actually believe it a mental issue, then dont try to "stretch her out"

    My god, i would kick you in the shin if you were doing this to me

    Please can you suggest for her to go and get checked out by a professional? At least then, if you get good news, you can begin to introduce small toys etc.....

    Good luck.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Derek78787878 View Post
    Guess I should be in porn then eh (j/k). In all seriousness though, I have no reason to lie about my penis size. I've measured it many times before (apparently you're supposed to measure it on different days because it fluctuates a little) and it's absolutely over 7" every time...I guess I was a little overzealous with the 8" around (although it did come close on one measurement...my point was my concern with if size it a problem or not). I work at a liquor store in Canada (LCBO) and I do not have a penis the size of a tall boy...and they dfinitely aren't only 8" around. I just measured a standard beer bottle (rickard's red...rotting by my computer...nice..) and it was 9" around...and tall boys are a lot thicker than a standard beer bottle. As for the running part...definitely didn't run into a problem like that in the past with other women.

    SOOOO anyways, as I said in the OP...I'm wondering if it's a size problem or a vagina problem? Or more than that.
    Vagina sizes do vary, just like men's penises. Most women will eventually stretch to the size of their lover. Serious problems should seek medical advice.
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