I think in the last two years I have heard at least 50 women say that I am not shook up by my partner...So he inserts himself inside me and I use a clit vibrator on myself to have an orgasm...The husband may be satisfied or not...I am not familiar with this....BUT..

I question why these same women don't have their man go down between their legs...You know lay on your back and really spread for him..Make it so that he can mount you when you scream from passion...Have him lick you and tongue you until you start to orgasm and squirm with the passion that is escaping...As this happens have him crawl on you as fast as he can...Have him taste the passion that you feel and join you in this sexual mating game...This is an awesome way to make love. Why have your own kick that you make when he can jack you off eating you and then enter you and turn the gears at the same time...

It is hard for me to believe that having a man in back of you licking you before doggy in that hot position that you can't orgasm...I'll bet you can...and then scream for him to put it in and fast...I hope I am not going to get edited on this but darn, it is the facts of life...

You see I have never known a vibrator until three years ago this Fall. Never in all my life...Stu*id Yes or Stu*id NO???....In this time we have learned to use our sexual bodies to perfection...So we are raw hot sex...And still are and always will be...Sex in all places and doing anything...Turning myself on not wearing underwear...Bending over the sofa...Hot sexual talk...

I am not against what you all know and love....It is that it is a machine and lord man is so much better or maybe I am all wet....

Thank you for your kind words...I am one thing...A woman....A woman helplessly and hopelessly in love with a man as much as the first time I saw him.....I could still eat him alive.....and may I say, I look forward to the day I will be able to do this again...(four more weeks....He had hip replacement surgery)......But hugs to you for that....xx C

Caroline wrote:
I will agree with you that if this is necessary go with it...But the problem that comes up so many times is that the partner so often gets frustrated that he alone cannot stimulate the woman enough...Why must she have something else helping her? He did this to her long ago and she loved it and why not now.. How long will this vibrator do the trick before the thrill of this wears off? It does you know...Anything that is used too much becomes a habit...The part stimulated can sometimes be difficult to wake up...If you are able to just use body parts to stimulate each other before penetration this is the way to go...Don't cross over unless you have to...I know some women cannot orgasm from just the thrill of their partner...But be careful with the vibrator in bed with man....Just my thoughts on this...

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Caroline, we will have to agree to disagree a little on this one because I think that there are times,- especially when a woman doesn't know her body well enough or the man is built in a way that is not perfect for her, that a woman may *need* a little help like a sex toy during sex in order to finish with climax or a faster climax. I have heard of guys having to work for long periods of time to get their woman to climax, and that gets boring for them too....It becomes work. Believe it or not, not everyone orgams instantly or easily.
I am lucky, I climax pretty fast. However, I can have a lot stronger of an orgasm sometimes with a toy, and I do partake. I guess that is because I can have more combo vaginal and clit orgasms with a toy.
Intercourse and intercourse alone is romantic and all...and satisfying in more than a sexual way....but some people need help.

True, true. true.


More pleasure?

The vibrator can go as long as the batteries last.

Find me that guy, and i'll give him a gold medal.

Some need it because he never drove her wild.

Atleast not with his sexual skills.

Thank you.


You didn't offend anyone.

Thank you for your kindness....

Honey, I know that some women need help...What I was saying about a prelude to sex was just a suggestion....When a woman marries a man and she tells you that back when they were dating when he fingered her that this did nothing for her...Now after 25 years she wants to be all that she hears that a woman can be...She wants what she has missed...What do you tell her? She has never known the glory of an orgasm and even now when he touches her, she is immune to his touch....So many women dig this hole and then ask for the help in a ladder to get them out of it....How do you teach someone to talk dirty that cannot think dirty?....

So I suggest ways that we have found heaven...Not for everyone and I realize this, but I do hope that maybe one in a thousand finds there way down the Yellow Brick Road where I live....This is the only reason that I write...xx C

Okay, Caroline...I guess I see your point in a way...but I still feel like using a toy is not a shame, if you can't orgasm the way you want to otherwise.

- Glad youre enjoying your new toys!

As far as im concerned, i cant see that they will cause any unhealthy problems as long as your husband is happy with you having them. I definitely agree with incorporating the toys during foreplay or intercourse....especially if you get 'him'to use the vibrator on your clitoris - will give his tongue a rest, involve him and drive you wild

I doubt you need to worry about not being able to orgasm vaginally, just alternate periodically...keeping you 'trained', so to speak.