Thread: What Are Your Thoughts on Fisting?

Originally Posted by lumba

Hi Owlhunter,

Yes there are other people who trully get off and enjoy fisting including my wife and I.

My wife has always had a very large and can easilly handle 2 penises inside her vaginna simultaniously which is also a huge turn on for us both but we discovered fisting one night when she kept asking me to put another finger inside her while performing oral. In the end I had 8 fingers in her and she was so wet and aroused that I decided to try to put my fist in and with slow pressure and a little extra lube I finally got it inside. Once I did I kept on licking her and she had a massive orgasm not long afterwards.

Fisting is now a regular part of our sex lives along with using her vibrator inside her while we are having intercourse, she also loves me to use about 4 fingers in her and then insert my penis inside her at the same time and wank myself inside her to orgasm as this makes her orgasm very hard as well.

I really enjoy the fact she is so loose down there as I never really enjoyed really tight girls before I married even though I am only about 7" in length.

If it feels good and you both enjoy it then keep doing it I say

Wow I have never tried fisting but I have done double penetration regularly and I really enjoy that so maybe I might get hubby to try it out on me tonight.

There is nothing wrong with 7" either, in fact I would say that is above average although I have a wonderful husband who has 8" when hard but any bigger than that would be too long for me as I had a 9" vibrator that used to hurt when pushed all the way.

Personally , I have not tried fisting and probably wont considering doing so until I have had a child . I dont see it being comfortable to me until that point .However , I do agree with the people on here who say to try new things. I am only 18 , but my SO and myself love to try new things. We set limits to what we are ok with , and talk about it all . Some things are on a " I am not ready to try that now" list , but I really think that more people should be open minded . As long as both parties are willing and ok with what is going on , anything ( legal with in reason ... some states/places have odd laws that make no sense ) that will bring fun or pleasure into a sexual relationship should be explored. It can also add intimacy to a relationship if its out of the norm . Most people have had multiple partners in their life time , and that one person who you tried something new with ... sticks . It gives you a sense of togetherness in some cases.

Also ,I really liked the analogy about trying new foods that was used by one of the previous posters . You wont know what all you like until you try it . We apply that to so many other aspects of our lives , I sincerely hope that more people apply that to their sex life as well .

And to the individuals who consider things like this sick . I strongly advise you to reconsider that , there are a lot more sick things involving sexuality ... most of which are illegal . Instead of telling others they are sick , you might try joining a help hotline or center that helps rape victims or abuse victims , then you will know what "sick" truly is.

Originally Posted by Mme.Marie

Personally , I have not tried fisting and probably wont considering doing so until I have had a child . I dont see it being comfortable to me until that point .However , I do agree with the people on here who say to try new things. I am only 18 , but my SO and myself love to try new things. We set limits to what we are ok with , and talk about it all . Some things are on a " I am not ready to try that now" list , but I really think that more people should be open minded . As long as both parties are willing and ok with what is going on , anything ( legal with in reason ... some states/places have odd laws that make no sense ) that will bring fun or pleasure into a sexual relationship should be explored. It can also add intimacy to a relationship if its out of the norm . Most people have had multiple partners in their life time , and that one person who you tried something new with ... sticks . It gives you a sense of togetherness in some cases.

Also ,I really liked the analogy about trying new foods that was used by one of the previous posters . You wont know what all you like until you try it . We apply that to so many other aspects of our lives , I sincerely hope that more people apply that to their sex life as well .

And to the individuals who consider things like this sick . I strongly advise you to reconsider that , there are a lot more sick things involving sexuality ... most of which are illegal . Instead of telling others they are sick , you might try joining a help hotline or center that helps rape victims or abuse victims , then you will know what "sick" truly is.

You sound very wise for only 18, and so does your partner. I wish i had been at that age.

And the idea of your "I'm not ready to try that now" list is an excellent idea. So wise. My SO and I have a Never Ever list, and a "We need to be pretty drunk" list.

The level of communication you have with your partner I believe is very rare, and especially for a couple as young as you are. Keep it up. And I hope you know that you have to work on the communication thing constantly. Otherwsie it seems to slowly slip away.

Well done, and best wishes for your future happiness.

i have been pegged and fisted by my girlfriend regularly over the last 4 years...yes, anally, and love it. so does my girlfriend, but it is one way, nothing she would ever accept being done to her...and yes, it has made me a better lover. as my girlfriend has said, "i never dreamed sex could be so good." being in total control of our sex lifeand me turns out to be an essential for her to have intense multiple orgasms...and another yes, it is extremely intense for me too.

I'm surprised at the vehemence and negative attitude toward this topic on here. I really don't see how fisting is that big of deal. I'd place it below anal sex actually on a scale of kinkiness or danger level. Once again I think porn is ruining reality here. My husband and I used up a barnes and noble gift card buying random books on sex just for curiosity sake. One of the books we got was Lesbian Secrets for Men. It has a rather large section on fisting. I'm not sure his hand could fit in me so not trying it anytime soon but the instructions they gave to get rid and what to do sounded very good and not painful. If it's painful you should stop and try something else. Once inside the hand is forced to curve into a fist just because it runs out of length in the vagina. Apparently the sensation is very great for both people. The person doing the fisting does not have to move much. Just a slight wiggle of the knuckles or shift in and out causes large sensations since the whole vagina is filled. Not the huge movements or force you see in porn. That would be very bad and probably could cause damage. Every structure of the vagina and movement of muscle can also be felt across the person's hand so they get to feel everything that happens during sex. It seems to some people this really is an amazing thing that teaches them alot about their partner, helps them learn more about what would improve sex or vibrator use, and gives wonderful sensations to both without any pain or discomfort. Plenty of people do it frequently without the woman getting stretched out any.

Learn about something before you condemn it.