Thread: oral sex

ok firstly i would just like to say that oral sex is no reason to finish with your bf. i remember when i was absolutely discusted by the thought of a blow job, that is untill my curent boyfriend eased me in slowly, now i dont mind. i agree with everyone else shower or bath is a good place to start. talk to him about it though, just ask him if he will try it for you, be a good idea to get him turned on first and maybe you could dress up if he likes that. he may be more willing to try if he cnt controll his urges lol. well good luck!!!

Originally Posted by msmiz

my ex fiance loved to do nothing more than to go down on me but we have since broken up and my new bf just HAAAATES the idea of it. its the only way i can have an orgasm and my bf is sooo grossed out by the thought of it...he hates watching it in adult movies and he refuses to if i ask. he's also very new to long term relationships and sexual exploration between couples. i don't want to push him into it but i mean.. i really miss it :[ i think the best way would be to ease him into it.. but idk how to start easing him.

any ideas?

My dear msmiz,

You can train your bf to give you good/satisfying oral (done that) however you can NOT train him to enjoy it (tried that one too).

So you are left with accepting he will never enjoy going down on you. What you do with that knowledge is other question of course.

Reading your description I would not exclude your bf being gay.

Good luck

Originally Posted by tristis

Well what I would do is while he was sleeping, get on top of his face and rub yourself on his lips.

LOL, LOL !!!!!!!!! You gave me a good tummy roll. I will do that to my hubby one of these days.