sex with a paraplegic

darkdefender · 07-21-2008, 07:28 AM

this question is for woman:
I am a paraplegic and i don't have any problem with erection and leading a sexual life except the ability to do many seuxal positions and also i can achieve orgams but with ejaculation... am i going to have any chances to share the rest of my life with a woman and live peacefully?

**dawn2** · 07-21-2008, 07:41 AM

that all depends on your personality and if the other person can see beyond your difficulties

**Fallen1** · 07-21-2008, 07:49 AM

I agree with what dawn2 has said.

I'm sure there's someone out there for you.

**Hystorm** · 07-21-2008, 09:36 AM

Thats actually rather awesome that you can get hard and have an orgasm!
You have alot to look forward to. You will need a woman that loves to be the mom figure, she will then rock your world.

Best of luck to you.

darkdefender · 07-21-2008, 01:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hystorm

Thats actually rather awesome that you can get hard and have an orgasm!
You have alot to look forward to. You will need a woman that loves to be the mom figure, she will then rock your world.

Best of luck to you.

hey,
I like your answer loool... but i am not sure i totally understood what you wanna say by the woman who will be like to take the position of the mom figure... you mean she will look after me and adjust everything in here life to fit the new situation?

**anonymouswhitefemale** · 07-21-2008, 01:59 PM

He means that some women like to control things, look after people, and play the nurturing female role. Others like to be looked after, be the center of attention in the relationship, and be the less mature one... or whatever.

darkdefender · 07-21-2008, 02:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by anonymouswhitefemale

He means that some women like to control things, look after people, and play the nurturing female role. Others like to be looked after, be the center of attention in the relationship, and be the less mature one... or whatever.

i see ... you mean a woman that takes control... a leader .... but the question what should I have that this kind of woman gonna accept to be with me? i mean everybody knows that all women look for a guy who you can count on ... how come she will be taking care of me? indeed, i dont need alot of care because i live alone and i do everything by myself ... it is just the idea of being with man who is not looking like her ma of dreams ...

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 07-21-2008, 02:55 PM

You can argue over your preferred "dream" partner. But a soul is a soul... Look at all the Olympians who marry each other for instance, like attracts like, but also as Anon and Hystorm said, there are women who love caring, and loving, deeply someone in your position, once they get to know you, the person.

At the end of the day, it is always the "person" someone falls for, not their looks, not their abilities, dis-abilities it's just harder for you than most, but hey guys are 6 - 1 anyway where woman are concerned, so don't be disalussioned.

darkdefender · 07-21-2008, 03:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

You can argue over your preferred "dream" partner. But a soul is a soul... Look at all the Olympians who marry each other for instance, like attracts like, but also as Anon and Hystorm said, there are women who love caring, and loving, deeply someone in your position, once they get to know you, the person.

At the end of the day, it is always the "person" someone falls for, not their looks, not their abilities, dis-abilities it's just harder for you than most, but hey guys are 6 - 1 anyway where woman are concerned, so don't be disalussioned.

Hey thanks for answering...
I see what you mean and i am so excited about this ... but out of experience, i just wanna mention that they are things in life that just happen out of your control ... even the way we feel about ourselves make diffrence ... they are days when i feel motivated and good... and there are some days when i feel more lonly... because even if when you try to express you pain noone can understand that as you are the one who is hurt ... and i am not talking here about exactly getting the right woman... it is more general and covers all life issues ... i have been working more getting back my sexual capacity ... and i am happy that now i can have an erection and climax except it is without an ejaculation, but i feel confortable just with a fact that i will be able to handle my sexual life .... i just wish if i can hold on for the coming years....

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 07-21-2008, 03:30 PM

Like anything in life.

If you have a goal and you persue that goal, eventually it will happen, or at least that is what i believe.

It would be wicked to go from A - Z, no matter what you set out to achieve and you have obviously achieved something that you aimed at doing.

Well done.

But, now aim at all the other goals you have.... Can't stop now.

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darkdefender Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 6	sex with a paraplegic this question is for woman: I am a paraplegic and i don't have any problem with erection and leading a sexual life except the ability to do many seuxal positions and also i can achieve orgams but with ejaculation... am i going to have any chances to share the rest of my life with a woman and live peacefully?

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CHANDLERS WISH WH Head Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Australia Posts: 12,598 Blog Entries: 8	Like anything in life. If you have a goal and you persue that goal, eventually it will happen, or at least that is what i believe. It would be wicked to go from A - Z, no matter what you set out to achieve and you have obviously achieved something that you aimed at doing. Well done. But, now aim at all the other goals you have.... Can't stop now. __________________ Women are Angels And when someone breaks our wings.... We simply continue to fly.........on a broomstick... We are flexible like that .... White Witch. Register! \| Rules/FAQ \| Contact Mod

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07-21-2008, 07:41 AM	#2
dawn2 VIP Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 53	that all depends on your personality and if the other person can see beyond your difficulties

07-21-2008, 07:49 AM	#3
Fallen1 WH Moderator Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: US Posts: 940 Blog Entries: 1	I agree with what dawn2 has said. I'm sure there's someone out there for you.

07-21-2008, 09:36 AM	#4
Hystorm Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 198	Thats actually rather awesome that you can get hard and have an orgasm! You have alot to look forward to. You will need a woman that loves to be the mom figure, she will then rock your world. Best of luck to you.

07-21-2008, 01:59 PM	#6
anonymouswhitefemale May 2008 "Poster of the Month" Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 1,479 Blog Entries: 2	He means that some women like to control things, look after people, and play the nurturing female role. Others like to be looked after, be the center of attention in the relationship, and be the less mature one... or whatever.