Thread: Dead sex drives and such...

Anon... the blog twisted my panties cuz of the womans hypocrisy. She regularly posts to men on another female forum. Then top it off with writing a whole blog with explicit, descriptive sex acts...there is a certian frustration for me with women like that.

Your perogative if you want to rub one out to the medical dictionary or gyno forums, more power to you.

I prefer blunt. At least I know what a person is thinking and dont have to read 12 pages to get to the point if it ever comes around to it. Most times tact is called for but sometimes it gets to a point where someone needs to be whacked with a clue by four.

I have actually learned from reading mens thoughts in forums and blogs and talking with them...really listening, many men have the same kinds of insecurities as women but the role they are forced to play by society kinda forces them to hide those feelings. I mean like OMG, will she like me, im losing my hair, I have a beer gut, my eyes are wonky type of insecurities.

Originally Posted by Uneeklyme

Anon... the blog twisted my panties cuz of the womans hypocrisy. She regularly posts to men on another female forum. Then top it off with writing a whole blog with explicit, descriptive sex acts...there is a certian frustration for me with women like that.

Your perogative if you want to rub one out to the medical dictionary or gyno forums, more power to you.

I prefer blunt. At least I know what a person is thinking and dont have to read 12 pages to get to the point if it ever comes around to it. Most times tact is called for but sometimes it gets to a point where someone needs to be whacked with a clue by four.

I have actually learned from reading mens thoughts in forums and blogs and talking with them...really listening, many men have the same kinds of insecurities as women but the role they are forced to play by society kinda forces them to hide those feelings. I mean like OMG, will she like me, im losing my hair, I have a beer gut, my eyes are wonky type of insecurities.

Uneeklyme
I read a blog today writen by a woman btw that stated "I feel that intimate subjects should be spoken with your own sex...

Cracked me up and pis*ed me off all at the same time as her next blog was a story of one of her sexual encounters written to man who she hoped would read it and take a little bit of knowledge away from it as he was having trouble in his marriage/sex life and wanted advice.

I believe many intimate subjects should be spoken with women only..I believe if cities or villages or hospitals gave married and single women the opportunity to talk about real hot sexual things that there would not be as many divorces...Women need it...They cringe talking to other people so they die slowly...They fester for fear of saying the word fu** but want to more than anything else..They die to tell their lover to go up higher and feel their c*** but they can't..They strangle there while sex lives and marriages go to he** because they are afraid...Unlike you who are in the most sexual profession in the world, they live in fear of the unknown...And that is just the way it is...Many women have come on this Forum and when they see there are men here leave..That is just a fact of life...

Now about the men...There are many good men here and men here simply to do their thing..I can read the difference...You, being in the profession should be able to do this too....End of that...

You nor I have no idea who is at the other end of the computer...A happily married man looking for help or a 56 or 17 year old looking for ammunition to pull the hot rod between his leg...End of that...

Men do not know our human body...Lord, we don't even know it...You are a nurse and you are gifted in this knowledge...We, here, are but a bit of the humanity who are trying to learn about life by looking at this site...The same goes for this site of mine that you speak about that this year will be pulling in well over a million people to read what I say...I am not gifted nor they do not go there to read smut, they go there to try and learn as they need help...I do not profess to know anything about life...I write because I am probably one of the horniest women in the world and my wonderful friend Dr. Patti told me to do this more than 2 years ago as I could have balled him five times a day...Crude but that is life...


I would love to see a Woman only site...I have said that before here and some women need it...They leave...I have nothing against men...

On female forums I don't post explicitly to men...Nor on the man's forum but I personally do post to men to try and help...You see, I am dam good at what I do.

I write explicit sex acts on my site because I am a explicit sex act in motion...That is who I am. That is why I do the site. That is what that man and I are...We F*** our brains out and live in passion. I write them because I need to...It is my release for my sexuality that is high enough that I am like a young woman in an older woman's body....

I have actually learned from reading mens thoughts in forums and blogs and talking with them...really listening, many men have the same kinds of insecurities as women but the role they are forced to play by society kinda forces them to hide those feelings. I mean like OMG, will she like me, im losing my hair, I have a beer gut, my eyes are wonky type of insecurities.[/quote]

Last point...I have never in my life learned a thing at a Forum about a man...I know it...I know what a woman has to do to a man to take him to heaven because I am more sexual than the average woman...I do not brag about this I state this...My husband has no securities...We are a matching set...I am all that a man would want in a woman and he is the same to me...

One more thing that PYO...Your friend Sue the nurse is a gifted woman...More knowledgeable, like you, in the sexual parts of a man and a woman. Saying this...She and I are as different as night and day...She is only a very few years older than I am at 78 yet that is it....She knows sex and I am sex...I believe as a woman I am perfection...Believing in myself being this way makes me the best lover that any man can ever have....And I am....This alone is why I have my site and try and tell this to each and every one of the women that read it.....C

This may sound repetitive coming from me but I'll say it anyway, STOP TELLING PEOPLE TO BREAK UP! To someone like me, that's like saying if you like to cook and he doesn't it's never going to work out. If you can't cook together, don't be together.

My boyfriend and I are very romantic, always kiss and hug, hold hands, touch each other lovingly. There are different levels of sex drive and I believe that you should work together with your SO to match your levels. Don't just give up while everything else in your relationship is wonderful. God I get so sick of hearing that. I know sex is important but if you willing to just throw away something special you might as well be having sex with a stranger. What if you find someone with whom you have great sex but the wheel is spinning and the hamster's dead, if you know what I mean. Orgasms shouldn't run your life.

I think that if there's a problem with sex drive, whether male or female, advice should be the same but try to work it out first. It's so easy for others to say "Just break up and all your problems are solved"

classichb, the fact is that practically any two people can choose to form a rappor, and will get on great. The fact that you have got to the point with someone doesn't really mean a whole lot of underneath it all you are just incompatible. Sooo many couples shouldn't be together, they are together because they are scared and weak to look for what they really need, or to much of a wet blanket to hurt someone's feelings in priority of their own.

When two people break up, it was always coming, and from then on they each have a chance to find their ideal match, as if they had the breaking up part wouldn't come.


Uneeklyme, somehow I'd guessed who you were talking about.

Caroline, I must say that along with the bacterial vaginosis thread I have also pulled the hot rod between my legs to your tales of the hot encounters with you and your sailor.... Even when it was completely irrelevent to the thread, which it usually was, I'd just whip it out and start beating.

If you're worried about what people might read on the internet, then don't write it, simple as that. Just as if you were writing in a newspaper, this is a medium for everyone, and you need to get over that fact.

Originally Posted by anonymouswhitefemale

Caroline, I must say that along with the bacterial vaginosis thread I have also pulled the hot rod between my legs to your tales of the hot encounters with you and your sailor.... Even when it was completely irrelevent to the thread, which it usually was, I'd just whip it out and start beating.

If you're worried about what people might read on the internet, then don't write it, simple as that. Just as if you were writing in a newspaper, this is a medium for everyone, and you need to get over that fact.

Anon: I am not worried what people might read...I have a folder full of women and men who have both been helped by finding themselves through what I write and praises for awakening themselves to life ...What I wrote earlier on this site I wrote because I was allowed to write it...My Making Love post was answered by The Female Prodigy..who is the Administrator...Riding a Man's Tongue was a learning thread and has been read many, many times...I do not write to make waves...I write to teach so many women who do not know how to make love..Many, many women just don't know how nor know what an orgasm is...They play let's pretend with the best of them...They can't wait until the sex act is over...They hate the male cum inside them.....Believe me, I know what I speak about...

I have not been speaking of any of my sexuality here for some time...Yesterday was the first time and that was to defend myself...On my site I let it all hang out...That is my private site and I can speak of who and what we are....Anon....I am madly in love with a man...What happened to me does not happen to everyone...Believe me I know what I am saying but maybe it could....Just fall in love and stay in love and never forget what you should be remembering from day one...When you go to bed with him after ten or twenty years of marriage it should feel as good as the first time he crawled up your leg and found you on the first date...This is what I have done that women do not do....This is what I preach....My site was started when I was mixed up, horny and dealing with a medical field not knowing I could be like this..I don't blame them..They are busy enough without being able to worry about a horny old woman...But may I add that this same medical field has apologized to me as I was their learning catalyst and have helped them and what I say is in books...But what price glory......

Somewhere along the way I have learned to understand how women see inside themselves...This has come in the last three plus years...At first it scared me and now I use it to help women....That is the only thing I have to say on this...The only reason I found what was said was that I was going to come on here and write to the OP about his wife and try to help....Guess that is all I have to say.....

Originally Posted by classichb

This may sound repetitive coming from me but I'll say it anyway, STOP TELLING PEOPLE TO BREAK UP! To someone like me, that's like saying if you like to cook and he doesn't it's never going to work out. If you can't cook together, don't be together.

My boyfriend and I are very romantic, always kiss and hug, hold hands, touch each other lovingly. There are different levels of sex drive and I believe that you should work together with your SO to match your levels. Don't just give up while everything else in your relationship is wonderful. God I get so sick of hearing that. I know sex is important but if you willing to just throw away something special you might as well be having sex with a stranger. What if you find someone with whom you have great sex but the wheel is spinning and the hamster's dead, if you know what I mean. Orgasms shouldn't run your life.

I think that if there's a problem with sex drive, whether male or female, advice should be the same but try to work it out first. It's so easy for others to say "Just break up and all your problems are solved"

In my last post I stated this -

I would suggest to whomever had such an issue to consider the idea of finding a more suitable mate but that's just a suggestion. Each individual has to weigh the good against the bad in a relationship, what's important, what's not so important, and go from there. Sometimes the love one may have for their mate is far more important than not having to deal with a little frustration.

I still hold to this way of thinking. It really all depends on the person/people involved and situation - of course just a dating situation is easier than a marriage.

It is wonderful that your relationship does not solely rest on the physical part, but for many sex is a very important aspect, that's just a fact. It is in those relationships that the frustration for one partner can be to the point that they start thinking/looking elsewhere and some unfortunately actually go further than just thinking about it, they actually do. It is in those situations especially that one may need to move on BEFORE they hurt their partner.

I will add that I would hope that before one makes the decision to move on they have discussed the issue and given it a fair go.