Thread: Do you remember all your firsts?

Do you remember all your firsts? There are probably a bunch more than I'm listing, but these are the ones that came to mind:

1) First time I held hands with a girl: I was 9. I felt unbelievably empowered and great about it.
2) First time I got kissed by a girl: I was 11, she was 7. My best friend's sister. I went over to their house to spend the night and brought her a lollipop as a present. She kissed me on the cheek. I'll never forget it. I still am close with her to this day (although my best friend died when we were 20). I have measured every woman I've ever known against this girl. She's like my sister to this day. She's one of the top 5 people in my life.
3) First time I kissed a girl. I was 12. Had a little girlfriend and we went swimming in my pool...kissed her in the shallow end. Shortly afterward, she beckoned me to go do a flip off the diving board. I was too embarrassed to do so because my "wood" wouldn't go down.
4) First time I touched a woman's naked body. I was "young" (I'll leave the age off since it involves overt sexuality beyond this point)...had a girlfriend and we went swimming (again the pool thing). Afterward, we went up to my room and I asked her if she wanted to watch me change my clothes...she did. I begged her to let me watch her do it and she did that as well. Managed to touch her pretty much everywhere, but just for a minute. AWESOME!
5) First time I masturbated. Mistakenly walked in on my best friend's sister rubbing one off on her bed. She was laying down on the bed and had her skirt hiked up a bit and was rubbing through he panties. I stood frozen and watched for a second until she saw me and then we both freaked out. I quizzed her on what she was doing and she told me about how guys do it (she heard from her friends) and I went home and promptly began the rest of my lifelong admiration of masturbation. God bless her! Ha!
6) First time I had real...honest to goodness SEX. One of my friends older sisters had this "thing" for me. She'd do anything for me...get me high, drunk, etc...but she always wanted to make out with me in exchange for whatever she would hook me up with. She was 2x my age (exactly). One time we were really drunk and she INSISTED I HAVE SEX with her THAT MOMENT! I did. Enjoyed it, but didn't know what I was doing. Lasted about a minute. I could not believe how wonderful a woman felt. From that point forward, I was DONE! Been addicted to women ever since.
7) First time I ever had sex with a virgin. It was awesome. My parents bought a new house. On the "closing day", I spent the night with my g/f in the empty house, with just her and I and a sleeping bag. We had dinner brought in, "borrowed" a bottle of champagne from my dad's liquor cabinet (with his permission...ok it was the 70's ok???)...we had candellight and just had a great time. One funny thing about it was that we started having sex on the floor in one bedroom. We'd do a little bit and then she'd want to rest. Then we'd do a little bit and she'd rest...each time she rested, she moved a few inches. By the time we were through, we had "inchwormed" ourselves all the way across the room. Hahahaha...that still tickles me. It was great and we both had an awesome time.

That's it. Share your stories...if you will...
Cheers.

All of my firsts were with my first boyfriend whom I ended up marrying. Marriage didn't last long as he decided shortly after our one year anniversary that he wanted to start dating a girl he worked with while I sat at home and tended to our son.

Fallen...I'm so sorry to hear that things didn't work out for you! I think if they had it would have been really an exception to the rule...


Miffed...you have a great sense of humor! The toy thing had me laughing so hard. I have to admire a girl who will steal a toy! Hahahaha! I appreciate you sharing your other firsts as well.

All this info is great. It's all about humanity and understanding where we've been. A lot of people think that "other people's firsts were all perfect and glamorous"...but that's almost never the case. A lot of it is awkward, and sometimes there are some really funny consequences to it.

Cheers.

Man, this is going to be pathetically embaressing...


1) First time I held hands with a girl: I was 13. In a science class we were testing reflex time by seeing how long a squeezed hand takes to travel through people... And I got to hold the hand of the girl I totally fancied, and I nearly crushed it ...

2) First time I got kissed by a girl: I was 15, at a fantasy dress party... I was a policeman... It was very drunk and messy. I guess this one carries on futher down...

3) First time I kissed a girl. Same as above I guess... Although discluding that it'd be like 4 years later at a party. "Where are you sleeping tonight?" "Your bed"

4) First time I touched a woman's naked body. About 2 hours after #2... Shared a bed, well, a matress on a floor in a room with another couple... I got a bit fresh, and the next day there were questions about (her) moaning. Man, thinking back to my actions then... oh dear... Lots of will but zero knowledge, it really makes me cringe.

5) First time I masturbated. I don't think I really have solid memories at that age... But young, 7 or 8 probably. I do remember the first time I actually ejaculated freaked me out, and I promised to myself I wouldn't do that again.... I guess that's probably the most comprensively broken promise I've made.

6) First time I had real...honest to goodness SEX. - Don't worry, I said it was embaressing, it only gets more shameful... 21. Yep, 21. Pretty ridiculous. What can I say? I'm some sort of late bloomer. So, that was 2nd date.

7) Never had sex with a virgin , and I guess by now it's never going to happen.

8) First time I had sex on "drugs" - come back from a night at a club, threw her onto the sofa in the living room of a shared house and had some of the best sex I've ever had. A combination of factors (booze/drugs/fatigue/fulfillment) meant that I could barely walk afterwards.

I post here to help women and not to gain friends...I am still after that blue name tag on August 19th...That was my original goal and darn I am going to stay with it...Rather than corrupt this thread I will be adding a small message on my Thread "In Defense Of Myself"...Now for my life:

1) First time I held hands with a guy: I was 15. I was working as a soda jerk in a drug store...I met him..He was a year older than I was..We dated for nearly two years..Nothing more than kissing..He was from a city 150 miles away and during the school year I only saw him for two dances..But I made my Mother happy...Her daughter had a boyfriend..Every time I felt his hard against me when he kissed me I wanted to puke...

2) First time I got kissed by a boy: I was in 8th grade..How old is that..14? You see I was a big girl..Not real heavy but loved sports and not petite...Some of the kids were not sure if I was a boy/girl...You know that name that they called queers...Shi*y age that can tear you apart..It sure did one heck of a deal on me..We were at the swimming beach..There was a bath house and all the girls were being kissed but me..There were more boys than girls but I think they thought I was going to either gobble them or God knows what...So I did not get kissed..Finally one of the girl's that was my friend told a neat guy she would give him money for a chocolate shake if he kissed me...He looked at her and came to me and leaned me against the bathhouse..There he gave me a wonderful long kiss...I did not know that was what they felt like..He even put his tongue in my mouth...Romantic ehh....Yeh, I had one heck of a great life...Forced to kiss for a shake....That did it until I meant the guy from the other city....

3) First time I kissed a guy. Was probably the guy from out of town but I never got into the act until after high school...Then, I lost 40 pounds and God Save the Queen...I dated like mad....

4) First time I touched a man's naked body. Was my husband on our honeymoon....I can't say that was heaven as I was so young and I found as you age all the things that happened then are more perfect now...We have always been good but we are majestic now...His naked body is my chalice of love so as we have aged my passion for life and sex has grown to a place with no name and a love that defies reality...All because of his naked body and this place in heaven where he takes me....

5) First time I masturbated. I really don't know...I know if my Mother caught me she would say don't do that it is dirty...Probably around 12 or 13. Never used a vibrator until near three years ago....Pretty dumb....

6) First time I had real...honest to goodness SEX. My husband on our honeymoon....I was a virgin...But great sex came with age....It does for everyone but you don't know it...At least I think it does...

7) Never had sex with a virgin...Only man that I ever had sex with in my life...It is funny as when I was interviewed by the female doctor to tell her about the sexuality of older couples I was asked a question that floored me...I found that the medical profession was not up on the sexual life of many older people...I sat and talked with her for a long time...She was amazed how sexual we were and shocked that I could take my husband off Viagra in three months...Then she asked me the question that shocked me and sat me back...She said, I want to ask you a question...You do not have to answer me if you don't want to but I still want to ask...She was about 30 years younger than I was...Her question "In all the years you have been married, have you ever had an affair?"...I could not believe what she said...I stammered for a minute and then told her NO, in all the years we were married I had never loved another man or had another man...The reason for the hesitation was I remembered the affair with my boss...Even though the sexual act was not consumated, it was hot...I wondered if she saw something in me that was showing....Funny how you can remember things from long ago at time...It kind of sticks with me...It was the reason I sought out Patti....I realized that day that my sexuality was higher than I had thought and it was still growing and it did....

8) First time I had sex on "drugs" - My husband is my drug and has been since the day I met him...We have never trouched drugs...Either one of us...TC, C

1) First time I held hands with a guy - Haven't a clue!

2) First time I got kissed by a boy - I think I was 10, could be very wrong though.

3) First time I kissed a guy - Hmmmmm, 10 maybe lol

4) First time I touched a man's naked body - I was 12. All of a sudden I became a naughty girl and was just up for virtually anything. Needless to say blokes took advantage of that fact (and quite rightly so lol)

5) First time I masturbated - quite late actually, I was 15. Always remember just messing around and I was shocked to discover just how good it felt!!! After that I was addicted, regularly playing 6 or 7 times a day.

6) First time I had real...honest to goodness SEX - 13 ...it was behind a school, quite random really! Neither of us knew what we were doing but it was sex all the same lol

7) First time I ever had sex with a virgin - Ooooooo a few times. I was the town 'bike'

8) First time I used a sex toy - I was 17 and a 'friend' bought one for me. I couldn't get enough of it and have added numerous others to my collection since. I love Ann Summers lol

9) First time I had anal - been wanting to try it for ages and it's not like I hadn't had offers, just wanted it to be with someone a little more special than the bloke I lost my virginity to ...erm long winded lol ...I was 21 when I first did it

My memory sucks so this was kinda fun to do

1st time I kissed a boy I was about 4yr and him 5yr (early starter i guess)

1st real pash kiss i was about 11yr and neither of us knew what we were doing, very funny looking back.

1st time I touched a naked guy I was about 13yr, well he wasn't totally nacked but we touched each other in the major naked areas if you get my drift.

1st time I had sex was the eve of my 15th birthday and he was a virgin too so that stone kills two birds.

1st used a sex toy I was about 30yr, not that long ago. Never realised what I was missing!!!

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1) First time I held hands with a boy: I was 11 or 12 and it was my first love, a boy I went to school with.

2) First time I got kissed by a boy: I was 12 and it was the boy above. A peck on the cheek.

3) First time I kissed a boy: I was 12 and had been 'summoned' by the boy above to the top floor of a block of flats in which he lived. He was obviously expecting more than the peck on the lips he got and left quite disappointed.

4) First time I touched a man's naked body: I was 15 and going out with a 21 year old. He told me he loved me but turned out to be a complete jerk!

5) First time I masturbated: Must have been about 14. *wonder what that does*

6) First time I had real...honest to goodness SEX: I was 15 and with the jerk at no 4! We did it behind the sofa at his aunt's house.

7) First time I ever had sex with a virgin: I was 17 and going out with a 19 year old. It took god knows how long for him to kiss me, bless him, and eventually he let me take his virginity. God he thought he was Don Juan after that!


8) First book I read: Billy Dog and Doggy Blue. I was 5.

Originally Posted by maz33

4) First time I touched a man's naked body: I was 15 and going out with a 21 year old. He told me he loved me but turned out to be a complete jerk!

The naivity of young women and mens taste for fresh bodies is a dangerous cocktail no? I don't understand why any young girl doesn't wonder about some older guys motives. Not saying anything about you, just the state of the world...