Thread: Different ways of making love

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

An interesting question was posed on another thread, so for the purpose of getting different answers, i thought i would start a new one therefore.

Your sexual character.

Why do women like the "cave man" approach, being taken.

As much as why do women like the "sensual" approach, time spent, making love.

And, or, "sexual", fantasy, experimentation, danger, or controlled.

Are you all of the above? Or tend to prefer one style more than the other and do you believe it is in your make-up, stemming from beliefs, or parental teaching, or just who you developed to be through your own passions in life, in-other-words just a passionate person who likes the whole 3 styles of making love.
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*Because "Bad Girls / sluts" seek sex. When they are bashed over the head with the Cave Man club its OK...

*The focus on me! ;-) Plus its sweet when he makes the effort to make it special....

*Taboo, unknown. Shared danger but I have to say I'm not really into too much of that! The expermentation starts that way and soon becomes the mainstream I think. Fantasy would be what? Watching adult videos and imagining DH and I doing similar stuff?

*Hummm.. Mostly the last two. DH has had issues with his sex drive and that kind of goofed up the Cave Man stuff. I wouldn't mind a bit of that however! ;-)

Originally Posted by owlhunter

Quote: And, then i have to consider, what i will miss out on later that day, so timing is got to be good too.. Hahaha. But, hey, it's all good, if i miss out I'll go for sexual in the morning... End Quote.

Is there a law somewhere I don't know about that says you can only do it once a day? Boy, am I in trouble. My lady and I like to take a "nap" about 3/4 pm. And then, well ..... Then we are all ready for dinner when we get up, can start having a little wine, and then .... Are we doing something illegal?

i sure hope thats it not illegal...hahaha... today, he complained that i wanted it to much, he was like do you realize we have done it 4 times in the last 24 hours... oops...

but as to the kind of sex i like, i like all 3, it just depends on the day and how much we do it, and how tired we are... sometimes i like it when he just unexpectedly does but then i will want it slow and sensual the next

You can break sex down into having sex, making love, and f*cking. As you get older you find that making love is easy, and you have more appreciation the value of just plain f*cking. For me, being aggressive is something I can take or leave, not just in the bedroom, but in life in general. But my wife is quick to remind me that she loves it when I show my masculine, aggressive side. That's how I won her over in the first place. That, and being a good kisser. She loves me the most when I behave as though I still need to win her over again.

Originally Posted by Richard S

You can break sex down into having sex, making love, and f*cking. As you get older you find that making love is easy, and you have more appreciation the value of just plain f*cking. For me, being aggressive is something I can take or leave, not just in the bedroom, but in life in general. But my wife is quick to remind me that she loves it when I show my masculine, aggressive side. That's how I won her over in the first place. That, and being a good kisser. She loves me the most when I behave as though I still need to win her over again.

Thats a good thought. You can win her over and over but you can only loose her once! ;-)