i have no idea what to do during sex

raspberrylefty · 07-29-2008, 01:14 AM

i just recently started having sex, and i am completely clueless on what to do to make it feel better for my boyfriend... he usually does all the work and i feel bad, i would like to do something for him... any ideas?

**damd** · 07-29-2008, 02:41 AM

There are tons of information here about that.

I would suggest BJs. Stripping for him. Ride him like a cowgirl. Bend over and let him decide which hole. (Anal, research that before you even think about it)

There are lots and lots of things to do....

What are you intrested in?

**maz33** · 07-29-2008, 06:03 AM

I agree with damd's comments...

It can feel a bit embarrassing when you start having sex but try not to feel self-conscious. Give him a bj and have sex with you "on top", most men love that. Simultaneous oral is a big turn on too (69).

Using a sex toy is fun and lightens the mood whilst giving you immense pleasure which he'll enjoy seeing!

If you're in the missionary position, don't just lie there and let him do all the work; wrap your legs round him, put them over his shoulders, hold him by the buttocks and pull him into you.

He'll appreciate you vocalising your pleasure too.

Good luck x

ILuvHim · 07-29-2008, 11:28 AM

read a book or rent a movie.....

raspberrylefty · 07-30-2008, 12:28 AM

thanks for the ideas, although some made me blush...

i tried girl on top today and he seemed to really enjoy it along with wraping my legs around him...

thanks again

**maz33** · 07-30-2008, 04:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by raspberrylefty

thanks for the ideas, although some made me blush...

i tried girl on top today and he seemed to really enjoy it along with wraping my legs around him...

thanks again

You go girl!

**Sweetness182** · 07-30-2008, 05:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by damd

Ride him like a cowgirl.

Thats how I got my nickname ;]
lol

But, yeah...works wonders that does.

mahalia · 07-30-2008, 08:12 AM

hey ras, sex is a beautful thing, a gud experience u shud enjoy. one important thing is to enjoy the ride and not be too conscious, actually don't be conscious! just have fun. follow ur body urges, thats important. and don u sit thr like a log!!!do sum action, thr is no one way bout it, over tym u'll learn and develop a few tricks of ur own and also be able to understand wat works for him and doesnt. i do agree wit all the posts here tho, but just knw that ther is no way bout it....explore

**damd** · 07-30-2008, 02:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sweetness182

Thats how I got my nickname ;]
lol

But, yeah...works wonders that does.

Yes it does.

Why did you not use that name here, Bullrider?

**Davey** · 07-30-2008, 02:36 PM

Communication is KEY, the more you talk (especially during sex) the more you find out not only about him, but what you yourself wants.

PS ask a guy for stuff during sex, that way even if he's strongly opposed he'll be to ethralled to express too much distaste lol that's how I got talked into snowballing (yuk haha)

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raspberrylefty Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 10	i have no idea what to do during sex i just recently started having sex, and i am completely clueless on what to do to make it feel better for my boyfriend... he usually does all the work and i feel bad, i would like to do something for him... any ideas?

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07-29-2008, 02:41 AM	#2
damd Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: May 2008 Location: USA Posts: 333 Blog Entries: 2	There are tons of information here about that. I would suggest BJs. Stripping for him. Ride him like a cowgirl. Bend over and let him decide which hole. (Anal, research that before you even think about it) There are lots and lots of things to do.... What are you intrested in?

07-29-2008, 06:03 AM	#3
maz33 Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: UK Posts: 270	I agree with damd's comments... It can feel a bit embarrassing when you start having sex but try not to feel self-conscious. Give him a bj and have sex with you "on top", most men love that. Simultaneous oral is a big turn on too (69). Using a sex toy is fun and lightens the mood whilst giving you immense pleasure which he'll enjoy seeing! If you're in the missionary position, don't just lie there and let him do all the work; wrap your legs round him, put them over his shoulders, hold him by the buttocks and pull him into you. He'll appreciate you vocalising your pleasure too. Good luck x

07-29-2008, 11:28 AM	#4
ILuvHim Banned from WH Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: NewJersey Posts: 62	read a book or rent a movie.....

07-30-2008, 12:28 AM	#5
raspberrylefty Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 10	thanks for the ideas, although some made me blush... i tried girl on top today and he seemed to really enjoy it along with wraping my legs around him... thanks again

07-30-2008, 08:12 AM	#8
mahalia Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 8	hey ras, sex is a beautful thing, a gud experience u shud enjoy. one important thing is to enjoy the ride and not be too conscious, actually don't be conscious! just have fun. follow ur body urges, thats important. and don u sit thr like a log!!!do sum action, thr is no one way bout it, over tym u'll learn and develop a few tricks of ur own and also be able to understand wat works for him and doesnt. i do agree wit all the posts here tho, but just knw that ther is no way bout it....explore

07-30-2008, 02:36 PM	#10
Davey VIP Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 49	Communication is KEY, the more you talk (especially during sex) the more you find out not only about him, but what you yourself wants. PS ask a guy for stuff during sex, that way even if he's strongly opposed he'll be to ethralled to express too much distaste lol that's how I got talked into snowballing (yuk haha)