Thread: I am disgusted with my body....but he's not!

hello everyone,

i have similar story, my body is also disgusting, only he thinks that too. he never told me so, quite opposite, but i know as he is doing everything that he can, not to sleep with me.

i am 160cm and 70kg. i have not always been like that though, but when i was 60kg the situation was the same.
sometimes we don't have sex for few months and i've already tried everything but nothing helps. i could walk naked he don't even look my way, i guess my body is so disgusting that he cannot even look.

yet i know he loves me, but, obviously not physically, more maybe as a sister as he really cares for me.

i am odd shape of the body, have big breasts and striae


i just had to tell that to someone
sorry..

Originally Posted by Rod'sGirl

Hey ladies, I'm new and I wanted some advice on a problem that's effecting my sex life!
Sooo...me and my boyfriend have been together about four years now. I'm not HUGE or anything like that, but I could stand to lose some weight. I have stretch marks, and a little stomach that I'm not extremely proud of. Me and him have great sex as long as we get down to it right away...but, he like foreplay also. I mean, It's fine for me in the dark, but the problem is the times when it's daylight and he wants to just look at me naked, or give him a lap dance....all those kinds of things that draw special attention to just my body. He says that he loves my body but it frustrates him that I am still embarrassed after all this time. I try to lose weight, but I always crash. I'm not pleased at all with my appearance and I can't understand how he could be either. I don't see myself gaining the confidence that he would like for me to have and I'm afraid that I'm beginning to bore him. What should I do?

I thought I was the only person who felt this way. Oh I wanna hug you. I feel the exact same way to the point I don't like him touching me at all

Be happy that he loves the way you look! My boyfriend came out of no where one day and said he liked my stretch marks, which I thought was really weird. The biggest turn on is to be confident with what you have, and tell him thank you when he complements you, he will love it. If you ever say yeah right... or I don't like... he will just feel bad. Even if you have to hide it, say thank you and then jump his bones!

What my wife calls imperfections are what make her so unique and beautiful to me.