Strech ?

Raynne · 08-05-2008, 07:38 PM

Hi, I don't know if this is the right place to post this or not but I really need some advice .

So i've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now, and sex has been on my mind constantly... I really want to have sex with him, but i'm a virgin and have some questions before I go ahead and do anything..

First off, i've been thinking that maybe I should strech myself out a little bit to make it less painful when it does happen... is that a good idea or no?

Also, I don't like swallowing pills, so is there another just as affective method ? Or should I just suck it up and stick to the pill?

I've also been wondering if there was a way to tell if my hymen is really thick or not, besides going to the doctors and asking...

***
If you could get back to me ASAP, it would be greatly appreciated

Thanks

Jade83 · 08-05-2008, 10:31 PM

Girl you don't need to do any kind of stretching, just go with it. Make sure there is lots of four play and you are well lubricated and everything will go smoothly!!!!!!!!!

**Phoebee** · 08-05-2008, 11:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Raynne

Hi, I don't know if this is the right place to post this or not but I really need some advice .

So i've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now, and sex has been on my mind constantly... I really want to have sex with him, but i'm a virgin and have some questions before I go ahead and do anything..

First off, i've been thinking that maybe I should strech myself out a little bit to make it less painful when it does happen... is that a good idea or no?

Also, I don't like swallowing pills, so is there another just as affective method ? Or should I just suck it up and stick to the pill?

I've also been wondering if there was a way to tell if my hymen is really thick or not, besides going to the doctors and asking...

***
If you could get back to me ASAP, it would be greatly appreciated

Thanks

There are a ton of birth control schemes. Everything from pills, to IUDs, to Hormone Rings to norplant to injections. Talk to your doctor about all your options and be sure your safe before you do anything! And in todays scary world are you sure your boyfriend is STD free? Ok, I'll stop acting like a parent but PLEASE think about it.

**Hystorm** · 08-07-2008, 12:01 PM

Depending on your religion or your own mind, you could get yourself a relatively small dildo and start using it to get used the feeling, etc.
Plus, you will train yourself to climax much easier, etc.

Good luck.

08-05-2008, 07:38 PM	#1
Raynne Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 1	Strech ? Hi, I don't know if this is the right place to post this or not but I really need some advice . So i've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now, and sex has been on my mind constantly... I really want to have sex with him, but i'm a virgin and have some questions before I go ahead and do anything.. First off, i've been thinking that maybe I should strech myself out a little bit to make it less painful when it does happen... is that a good idea or no? Also, I don't like swallowing pills, so is there another just as affective method ? Or should I just suck it up and stick to the pill? I've also been wondering if there was a way to tell if my hymen is really thick or not, besides going to the doctors and asking... *** If you could get back to me ASAP, it would be greatly appreciated Thanks

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08-05-2008, 10:31 PM	#2
Jade83 Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Tennessee Posts: 25	Girl you don't need to do any kind of stretching, just go with it. Make sure there is lots of four play and you are well lubricated and everything will go smoothly!!!!!!!!!

08-07-2008, 12:01 PM	#4
Hystorm Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 198	Depending on your religion or your own mind, you could get yourself a relatively small dildo and start using it to get used the feeling, etc. Plus, you will train yourself to climax much easier, etc. Good luck.