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    Hi, I am a happily married woman of 22 years. Recently my boss, who up to this point has been a friend, has declared he wants more. The problem is I find him very attractive and, my husband and I being adventuresome, have wondered about the complications and morals of a threesome. Any advice

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    Complications and morals aside ...... putting your boss into the mix is not a good idea.

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    I think it is a no brainer that messing around with the boss is not a good idea. The threesome question itself is a complicated one, and...from what I have read on multiple threads (and sites), and is a potential powder-keg for a lot of couples. You have to be one of those very open, non-jealous couples....and beyond. Although some say it brings an open, non-jealous couple even closer. I just can't imagine it (at least right now)! I only fantasize!
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    That crosses the line with me. And even if your husband says he wants this I think the odds are very good that the reality will be a big negative shock. I had a long "debate" with a man on a different forum who claimed he wanted a similar situation and when he got it was suddenly not so into watching his wife be "done" by a stud.

    Getting "work" involved in your personal life is by itself an insane idea. Way too many pitfalls to even start.
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    well think of it this way could you handle it being with another women ?i know couples that do this to keep the marriage spiced up. I think if you do this you shouldn't pick your boss.

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    Yes, coworkers + sex is never a good idea.

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    Don't do it!!!

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    Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    One liners for the top threeeeeee... And i have to agree.
    Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
    It doesn't happen over night
    if truth were to be told.

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    the boss is a bad idea, the threesome however is not too terribly bad, you need to know that neither one of you will become attached to the third person, speaking from experience in being the other person brought into the bedroom, in all reality it's up to the two of you. it's what ever you both feel you should do.
    Before you criticise someone walk a mile in their shoes and then that way if they get angry they will be a mile away and barefoot

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