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Originally Posted by Mme.Marie
You say he has sex with you , but when you arent up to it , he finishes himself ? Well just be thankful he understands no , so guys dont. Also , he isnt cheating on you , so dont worry.
Sex is fun. No doubts there . But its not the only pleasurably thing. If you feel out of the loop , when you are in the mood , you can play show and tell ... learn what he does and what that does to him . That way you can make him feel just as good. Why ? To quote something I once read " A hand job is like a sandwich , you can make it yourself but its so much nicer to have someone make it for you " . Also , it can be a really big turn on to watch your guy ...and , when you play show and tell... you get a turn to show him how to make you melt .....
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I think it is great to watch your partner masturbate! I love to watch men do it...and watch my husband do it! However, I am *not* lucky in the respect that my husband does not like doing it in front of me. I think he likes the the sensuality of it alone...to make any noise he wants and just enjoy his own knowing touch.
I don't think women could ever give a handjob like a man can do it for himself. His brain is wired-in to his penis and can make ever so subtle changes in pressure and speed, etc. He can do it best. We are lucky they usually can't give themselves BJ's! LOL!LOL!