Thread: bf who's addicted to masterbation

for those of you who had serious posts and understand. thank you all very much it was all very helpful. To Mme.Marie hats off to your little game of show n tell. we both really enjoyed it. it help me to understand what he does an why. i really like when it was my turn to make him just watch. and it also allowed me to learn more about myself and my body. so i guess its not really a bad thing. though i don't think that im quite ready just to randomly masterbate when hes not around. that will have to come in time. but again thank you. i will continue to check up on this post to see what other people have to say as well

Originally Posted by Mme.Marie

You say he has sex with you , but when you arent up to it , he finishes himself ? Well just be thankful he understands no , so guys dont. Also , he isnt cheating on you , so dont worry.

Sex is fun. No doubts there . But its not the only pleasurably thing. If you feel out of the loop , when you are in the mood , you can play show and tell ... learn what he does and what that does to him . That way you can make him feel just as good. Why ? To quote something I once read " A hand job is like a sandwich , you can make it yourself but its so much nicer to have someone make it for you " . Also , it can be a really big turn on to watch your guy ...and , when you play show and tell... you get a turn to show him how to make you melt .....

I think it is great to watch your partner masturbate! I love to watch men do it...and watch my husband do it! However, I am *not* lucky in the respect that my husband does not like doing it in front of me. I think he likes the the sensuality of it alone...to make any noise he wants and just enjoy his own knowing touch.
I don't think women could ever give a handjob like a man can do it for himself. His brain is wired-in to his penis and can make ever so subtle changes in pressure and speed, etc. He can do it best. We are lucky they usually can't give themselves BJ's! LOL!LOL!

Originally Posted by SorridLives

I think it is great to watch your partner masturbate! I love to watch men do it...and watch my husband do it! However, I am *not* lucky in the respect that my husband does not like doing it in front of me. I think he likes the the sensuality of it alone...to make any noise he wants and just enjoy his own knowing touch.
I don't think women could ever give a handjob like a man can do it for himself. His brain is wired-in to his penis and can make ever so subtle changes in pressure and speed, etc. He can do it best. We are lucky they usually can't give themselves BJ's! LOL!LOL!

I LOVE watching my boyfriend do it as well. It's just such a purely masculine thing to watch, as I see his big hand gripping it and his arm muscles twitch. Hot hot hot. He's gotten much more comfortable doing it in front of me over time, but he still prefers me to stimulate him when we're in bed together, rather than him doing it. But it's definitely true that watching him and asking him questions while I tried my hand at it made me WAY better at jerking him off. I think I'm pretty good at it now, whereas I used to feel kinda clueless about it. I almost think I'm better at hand jobs than blow jobs now!