Thread: cyber sex

Originally Posted by anonymouswhitefemale

I guess I'm pretty liberal and all for freedom where there is no harm... And if someone on the other side of the world who you will never see is mutually masturbating with you, or whatever, its kinda like free love without all the risks... hah.

Yes, if someone on the other side of the world who also you "may actually meet" and is mutually masturbating with you on an emotional sexual level of intimacy, or "whatever", ha... It is like a form of "love" an emotional bond is formed you have both been intimate regardless of whether they can see you ie) Web Cam or hear you ie) telephone, and correct there are no risks, STD, pregnancy.

I agree with others as you know, a committed relationship has no room for Cyber Sex... In my books touching your body whilst communicating with a "real person" on the other end discussing what you are doing is far worse if in a relationship and you are communicating, not just watching.



Also, something else the OP needs to consider is this.

Yesterday I read a thread (1 year old) about a woman who begged, literally begged for forgiveness from an agruement over the phone to a guy she had been "CYBER" speaking with on all levels for 12 months. He basically, decided to move on with a woman he met.

She was devistated, ready to move over to him and live with him... They had never, ever even met.

She proclaimed her "love" for him, deeply.

Fact is "emotional" bonding is way more dangerous than "intimate sexual bonding".. It's fantasy a belief of all things that are possible, whilst not even knowing if they are in reality, rather the fantasy that both create and have created.

There is a real danger of getting close to someone in this manner, if you are "single". This woman would have kept to herself for 12 months. Understand that bit... He more than likely didn't keep to himself for 1 week...

She would have gone through tears, depression, in-securities, non-believe of future male partners, all for "emotional bonding" with a keyboard and screen...

Be very careful...

CW