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Originally Posted by roro1978
what should I do?
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Honestly you can go up to any man at the bar and say whant to come home with me tonight? And around 95% of men will be like.
OK!
Ofcourse i dont have to warn you about protection...
If you want a quality guy then take the advice i gave to my cousin. A 31yr old single mother. She went to the high class bar/lounge every night and never got one approach. I told her to wear an attention getting outfit. It doesn't have to reveal cleavage. Make it a bright colored outfit.
Red, Light blue, yellow maybe something with beeds lacings...Note I am not a fashion stylist. No blacks, grays or anything that will blend in..
When you walk into the place Keep a smile on hold it the entire night, or atleast the best you can. If you catch yourself not smiling throw one on. Its easy think of something funny. It communicates that your non threatenings, so guys wont think that you will shoot them down when they approach you. Make eye contact hold it but then break it and return. It communicates that your a little submissive. Men like to take control.
Or you can hold eye contact to weed out the submissive men.
If you order a drink
Do not have it in front of your face! Its a sighn of aggression or closed off.
Be interesting. Dont give yes or no answers. Give open ended questions/ or make statments.
Ex: You must be the oldest in your family? the guy will answer and then ask why you made that statement... Opposed to asking the question You
an only child. Guy says no i have two sisters conversational thread closed followed by akward silence.
Hope this helps
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