basically me and my boyfriend have been going out for just over a year now and we have been having sex for bout 6 months and i just dont feel it!
all i feel is his manhood going inside and coming back out again.
it cant be the size of his manhood because its a decent size.
were both 17 and lost it to eachother.
he feels it fine and can last ages now but it just doesnt do anything for me.
ive tried gion on top and hes gone on top.
weve tried anal aswell.
he can give me an orgasm through foreplay.
but its really upsetting me that i cant enjoy sex and its upsetting him aswell. cuz he knows i dnt enjoy it so he doesnt enjoy it as much.
ive considered going to the doctors but i thought i would do a forum first see if i'm not the only one who has this problem.
my boyfriend has been with me through all of our relationship and he understands and trys to help me put nothings working, ad its putting me off from sex. i keep having sex because i have faith that i will feel it but its really putting me off now
please can you help?
thankyou
x

Hello Cake , When I first lost my virginity,i felt exactly the same way you do.I could always get pleasure from foreplay but never intercourse. The older I got,the more pleasurable intercourse had become. I know that it is very frustrating and can cause alot of mixed emotions for both you and your boyfriend. You are only young and sometimes it actually takes the vagina itself to get used to this new thing that is happening . My suggestion is, start the foreplay and keep it going until you are on the verge of having an orgasm then stop the foreplay and have your boyfriend insert his penis inside very slowly and keep the rythym slowly. Alot of woman get more pleasure out of intercourse by gentle and slow thrusts..rather than hard and fast thrusts.

I hope I have helped you .
Wiltered flower x x x

Im 17, been with my bf for almost a year () and we both lost our virginity to eachother and we've been having sex for 6 months! spooky!

and for the first couple of months I could feel him inside me and that was it...it didnt feel bad, it didnt feel good...it just was there. No pleasure! Annndd I could only orgasm through foreplay! Hmmm...twins?


the first time I came during sex was with me on top and i had my hips tilted forward so my clit was rubbing against his pelvic bone


Things are much better now but everyone's different so the only advice I can give is be patient and try new things, like having him rub your clit in various positions where he can get to it



Good luck I hope things improve because it's such a shame
Your friend, Shweedart

thankyou both for your replys, its given me a bit more thought about my situation ill deffinately try all the things youve told me and makes me feel alot better that i'm not the only one!
makes me feel alot more confident about this and makes my boyfriend happier knowing that im not as upset about it!
you've been really helpful thanks
xx