Am I a prude?

[d9139ont]

Well, sorry to burst your bubble hopeless dork, but there are a lot of guys whose fantasy is to see their woman with another guy. My bf included - who happens to be pretty serious about making it happen. It might not make much 'sense' to you, but fantasies definitely don't always make sense! Just look up some of the more common fetishes!

I think it may be more of a thing where a guy gets off on seeing a female get off. I watch porn and love to see females get off and orgasm. There are many cuckold themed videos where the theme is a wife being pleasured in front of her husband by another guy(s). I am married and love to please my wife and get her off. Now in fantasy I do imagine my wife getting pleased by another guy might be great. The thought of it is a turn on. However in actaul reality would I want another guy pleasuring my wife. Would it make me jealous? Probably. It is difficult to differentiate fantasy from reality. Only when it happens for real can you decide whether it was a good thing or not. Is the fantasy actually seeing her squirm in pleasure or actually seeing her with another guy? Kind of two different fantasies in a way.

[mewhenim]

I told my husband I'd do a FFM if he would do a MMF, he couldn't see doing it, so how could he expect me to? Worked well, I would have done it btw, but when he realized he couldn't, he no longer expected me to. Lol, this was a little thing at the end of our marriage, so I may not be the best person to listen to.