guys cuming inside..
i recently got on birth control for my boyfriend. He's in the Navy and only comes home every once in a while, so i wanted both of us to be able to enjoy the time he's here. We have sex without condoms and he cums inside me and it.. well, feels so strange/good/gross. I cant explain it. What is your guy's take on letting your boyfriends or husbands cum inside you???
it is fine when you are in an exclusive relationship (i have had a tubal so pregnancy is not a worry for me) but i will tell you..i was engaged to a guy in the navy and have a perfectly good idea what guys in the military do when they are away from their woman. if you and your boyfriend are 100 percent faithful..go for it...if not,use a condom.
Oh my, guess we have a generational difference on this! I and I think much of my generation will do darned near anything to avoid condoms. I have learned that I can cum with a condom (did some experiementing) but it's not quite the same thing and I know it's really different for the men. But we live in a world where sex has become deadly so by all means unless you are 100% certain he never has sex with anyone else w/o a condom - better use one.
As for feeling gross - nothing I like better than that feeling!
My husband and I used condoms on and off for the first few years of our marriage for birth control (family planning) because I couldn't be on birth control because of I'm high risk for blood clots. After our 3rd baby he had a vasectomy. I have to say I was a little apprehensive about going without condoms due to the mess factor, but DH was so excited! LOL We've been condom-free for 3 years now and I love it. It is a bit more messy, but it just makes sex seem more "intimate."
My guy had a vasectomy in December, and just got the "all clear" last Thursday......and wouldn't you know it, we both came down with horrible head colds last weekend! I can't wait for us to be back feeling healthy again so we can have some fun without worry, I think it will be great. Not concerned with the mess, and I think it will just make it that much better not ever having to worry about pregnancy.
lol ttrix, good luck with that, hope you two start feeling better soon!
I HATE condoms, it's just not the same feeling. When your guy has to pull out (to avoid mess, def not a good birth controll method) it almost ruins the finale for him. There is something I really like about the moments afterward where we just lay and he's still inside me. I generally just go to the bathroom strait afterward and then a shower a bit later. Sometimes I'll lay for a while before going to the bathroom and then I really do start to get uncomfortable with being so wet down there.
At the time, this is something that my boyfriend and I avoid for obvious not getting pregnant reasons. However, I can not wait until we are not avoiding this anymore. Im not gonna lie...this is something that the thought of turns me on beyond belief. Ive heard of peoples mixed opinions on this and honestly, I think I would love it. I love when my boyfriend cums not, I think I would really love when he would cum like that.
My BF hates condoms and hard for him to get off or as well with one. But I've been on the pill forever. It's much better for both.
Guess initially it may seem messy or gross to some, never got to me that way.
But I'm sure your guy will be a lot happier without the condoms
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