OK I am here to find out the truth

[The_Average_Man]

I have joined womans health to give an average man's perception to womens difficult questions so I thought that I might ask one myself.
But please please be honest!!
I have a smaller than average member which is about 4" erect. I have been hurt by knowing that most men are bigger than me. Now don't be nice just answer the age old question. What would you do with a guy that ended up showing you one that size and would you stop dating the guy if you liked him and he was small like this.
Goshhh..
Here goes..I'm going to wear my sunglasses for the answers I get.

BTW I am 52 years olds and married.I'm just trying to figure out if my wife married me knowing that she might have more fun with a bigger guy.
Thanks.

[marycate]

Nope, don't care a bit, butt first, then nimble fingers and tongue!

[withered_rose]

I can say that I honestly don't really care I have been with large and small men alike.... and I am happy with who I have settled down with..... I guess really when it all comes down to it, it depends on how orally skilled the person that I am with is.

[Hopeless Dork]

When in love - nope doesn't make the least bit of difference. 4 inches is well long enough to reach and stroke the g-spot and so at that size penetration would still be extremely pleasurable. But even if it were smaller than that.. when in love, the size of the guys penis is not an issue.

Rediculously huge ones don't even feel that great and hurt mostly, I think they are kind of a novelty, fun to look at and play with or fantasize about (much like some guys feel about very large breasts) but the reality more normal average sizes are more pleasurable.

My boyfriend is pretty darn big, not sure what size, but much bigger than average yet not circus penis large painful either. But I am so into him, it really wouldn't matter to me one bit if he were smaller.

[The_Average_Man]

Remember that a 4" penis mean maybe 3.5" of penetration.But I guess I believe you because I got a 5.5" in toy with a 5.5" girth for my wife. I am 4" long with a 4" girth and my wife said the extra size didn't do anything as far as extra excitement.She said my smaller penis hit all the right spots as the bigger toy. But my wife doesn't know where or if she has a G-spot. She is not really interested in learning about it. I tried to find it and she felt nothing but she is completely satisfied with the clitoris orgasm.. Shhhhh...This is a secret. Two times I was using my tongue to give her an orgasm and I was between her thighs.When she had her orgasms,she almost crushed my head
I race my car at the drag strip and have a special helmet that is good for a crash going at more than 100mph. I am going to have to use that next time

[sallyskellington]

and the age old answer stands hun, it's not how big you are it's what you can do with it. If you know how to use it the size doesn't matter.

[The_Average_Man]

Ok I am going to put you girls on the spot because I am asking the same question in another forum and they are baffled. When you say "know how to use it," what exactly do you mean by that. I am excellent at foreplay and my wife usually already has her orgasm before we even have intercourse.But as far as in intercourse, all I know is to put it in, move it in and out and that's it.
My wife says that the penetration is for my fun.She thinks it feels good but doesn't have an orgasm by intercourse.But what she really loves is when I put my penis directly on her clitoris and make circles on it. Am I missing something or is that what you mean by knowing how to use it.

[sallyskellington]

when I say know how to use it I do kinda mean make her climax during intercourse. She enjoys when you use you pen0r on clitoris bc it stimulates it. If you can also stimulate it during intercourse she will most likely climax then as well. (sorry if I am talking in circles, it's still early for me)

[Debra]

You can also move your hips...think of sex as a dance and then you'll see what I mean. Other positions would also stimulate different areas inside a woman while penetrating. Massage her back, neck, butt, breasts....also kissing while penetrating can give a woman different sensations.

Kama Sutra.....need I say more? lol

[sallyskellington]

Kama Sutra.....need I say more? lol[/QUOTE]

THIS