what do you do with yur boyf?

[xoxobaby]

okay i dont have a boyfriend right now, but when i did, he would get mad at me when i asked him to come over my house. why ? because we couldnt make out, or whatever at my house, because of my parents. he would constantly want to do stuff. like he was never just happy, just being with me.
now seven months after our breakup, i really like this guy, & i kno he really likes me, but i dont kno what to do, when we hang out.
anybody wanna help ?

[Hopeless Dork]

Me and my boyfriend like watching movies on dvd and going to the movie theatre, playing console video games, making dinners or going out to eat together, going hiking, going to the park, playing miniature golf, watching silly tv shows, back massages, going shopping, going to fairs and things like that when they are in town, live music shows occasionally, hanging out with other friends sometimes.

Mostly we just like each others company, whatever we are doing. We like to talk or sometimes just sit quiet but it feels good just being around each other no matter what we do.

[xoxobaby]

That sounds goood. The last time me & this boy hung out, we went for a walk, & we talked plenty. He said he had lotsa fun, i thought it was kinda boring, but i think i just thought that cuz i thought he thought that.. confusing but.. yeah if he does ask me to be his girlfriend, which im thinking he will soon, he wont really need to do anything special, he would just like my company, nothing more, unlike my last boyf.

[Chantalemma]

Exactly! I just hang out with his family some and he hangs otu with mine. You get to this point that you really want him to be a part of your family too. You sound young so you still a a ways to go before then. Good LUCK!

[OG612]

Me and my girlfriends like to people watch. Especially at the Mall of America where you get such a diverse crowd.

Or interrupting peoples' patterns by asking questions like "Do you prefer left or right-handed bowling balls" and watching their eyes glaze over as they begin to question the truth they've known their entire lives... bowling balls are neutral.

Or introduce yourself as Marvin the Martian and ask what their favorite flavor of bowling ball is.

We love screwing with people!

When the weather's right we might hit up one of the 10,000 lakes here in Minnesota, or go hiking, camping, maybe get on a lake or river and do some tubing or skiing (I still can't get up on those durn things!)

And then at night... hypnosis comes in to play. It's a beautiful thing, really. One of my girlfriends learned my inductions and whatnot and is currently having some hypnotic fun with some of her friends. Gotta love it!

OG

[caterpillar79]

This is with a recent ex...
We are publicly introverted! So we watch people together, we ride our tandem bike, walk in the park, play at the swing, sit and read our own books, dine together, drive and get lost together, chase each other like kids, bathe together, brush together, watch tv, movies, sing, he teaches me violin, tease each other, insult each other, make the bed alternately, do our laundry - wash, fold, press, buy stuff together, squirt water out of our mouth when we get bored in a fast food..., visit friends, go to church, "elope" and make out when we're with his family, be silent and sulk individually or when we get mad at each other - we don't shout/yell, we evaluate our issues and talk a lot about it...sad to say, it ended. LOL...If it's meant to be, it's meant to be...moving on, here!

[OhThereYouAre]

Cook!

She loves to watch me cook - I teach her stuff....she preps stuff....and we always have some wine handy.

I dunno - there is just something sensual about cooking for someone and them watching you and eating together afterwards.

[echoskybound]

Well, of course this all depends on the person. My boyfriend and I have some common nerdy interests, so we play video games a lot, talk about books and movies, go for walks, and just generally be silly. The other day we got into some ridiculously big wrestle/tickle match because I wanted the window curtains open but he didn't, lol. We go to the grocery store at 1am to get cherry pie and fruit snacks, or watch videos on YouTube, teach eachother things, have little competitions over silly things, etc. Being physically intimate is wonderful, but that's definitely not the biggest part of it. It's important to create memorable moments between eachother that really have nothing to do with making out. Listen to music you both like when you're together. Have conversations about things you're both really excited about. It's easy to do when you get along with them well.

[Isabellacat]

I like putting batteries in my boyfriend lol. When I was seriously dating this guy recently funnest things we'd do: get drunk and git down He'd make me watch Lost,I put my leg around his while watching the tube and drinking beers ....fall asleep on his lap when he watched long hours of baseball . Go out and go site seeing.
But then we broke up....oh yea that was alot of fun.

[KimmyC]

Since I don't have much money, and he's about to buy a house, he's saving like crazy. So the past few months have been kinda boring for us. But just being able to be together makes me happy I go to his house at least once a week, and then stay the weekend with him. We make dinner together, watch movies, watch our favorite tv shows, CUDDLE, play online games. Sometimes we go shopping together, or we'll have a little lunch date after church on Sunday afternoon. We'll work on our cars on our off days, wash them together too. Take the dog for a walk, take a walk in the light rain. Hang out with friends and have a bbq and just catch up.

When he's feeling extra sweet, he'll have us dress up a little and we'll go to dinner and order off the cheap menu (like Chili's 2 for $20) and then go get ice cream somewhere. One time, we even dressed up, went to the Nissan dealer and test drove the new 370z Granted, they tried to sell it to us...but after that we went to a Mazda dealer and he let me test drive the new 3. Then we had dinner. It was soooo fun.

But of course, I can't forget our monthly autocross races! Once a month, we'll go down to Firebird Raceway and get our racing on. We are both pretty competitive, and it's something he introduced me to when we starting dating last year. Now he's got me hooked