I'm so confused!!!!

[knwalton]

About a year ago me and my husband brought another woman into our bed. It was very fun and I absolutely loved watching him work from a distance. Now when i think about those nights, it turns me on...but it also infuriates me! I don't know what's wrong with me!

[WildChild]

Nothing is wrong with you. Quit worrying about it. It isn't like you are thinking about harming someone.

[Ahryin]

Nothing is wrong... get a little freaky and you start freaking out..literally..thats cute! Calm down

[OhThereYouAre]

You're normal.

It's been a fantasy of mine to have a threesome M/M/F - with past girlfriends - or watch them have sex with someone else.

I've participated in threesomes several times with good guy friends and girls I have no strong emotional attachment to. Those were fun and there were no hard feelings.

Though it excites me, I don't think I could stand the thought that my fiance had sex with someone else and enjoyed it once my desire had diminished.

[Ahryin]

OhThere what if it was with a girl? Would that change anything?

[OhThereYouAre]

Lesbians and lesbian activity hasn't ever been my thing. Me doing things to two girls at once is awesome.

No, I wouldn't want to participate in a M/F/F threesome now. My fiance keeps me busy enough, I'm very sure that I wouldn't mind having sex with just her for the rest of my life.

As far as M/M/F I think its the actual penetration of a real penis in a vagina, and the woman deriving pleasure from it that turns me on.

I've only participated in two, (well one that came to fruition) M/F/F threesome and it was when I was in college and it was with two very attractive girls. We had gone to a club together then went back to my, (well my mothers) house. I was drunk, they were not. One of them didn't even drink. They get into bed and I went to use the restroom. I come out and one of them said, "T (which is my nickname) there are two hot girls in your bed, what are you going to do about it?"

Hope this isn't too graphic....and I know, I know, i'm weird.

[Ahryin]

No not at all...I am opening up a Hollistic Intimacy Shop so I deal with these kind of things and will be dealing with them on a constant basis. It's actually one of the classes we will be offering.

You do realize that they have strap on's ...so if your woman is up to it you have the option of still watching her receive that pleasure but from a woman which may not be so taboo for you. Understanding that this is your wife and not a girlfriend..two completely different things