We (as in everyone) do choose whether or not to succumb to it however. I've never really given a care to what societies think is good or bad (an advantage I suppose to living in multiple cultures and countries all my life). I also don't really choose to read the mags or what the cheezy shows. My outlook is that I was happy by myself and am happy with my DH but that's because I chose to share my life with someone who also saw me as just me. He went out of his way to pursue me and the hours of conversation we all have when we meet a guy, he and I still have even after marriage.
Of course there are times when we both use our sexuality to please each other but aside from that we see each other as people first and anything else is just bedroom fun.



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