he hid my past for me..until

[icuao2]

i gave him an option "don't let her go" or we'll tell our child together. or tell your family not to say anything ;he said; he said something to them.Why is it that it is me having to hear his conversion to believe him and i don't do that. and now i called him "no back bone. and now i have taken over the conversions-with his mother since i Thur out the one that made it her business to tell our child that their was another child and that was told to our child was not to say anything to our child while on vacation. cause my husband want to go on his manly bike events maybe a few years before 2007 and our child was local but a long drive where i just knew i would get lost; was calling me everyday i bored we were suppose to go.. on and on for a week and our child aunt gave her $7.00 not to say that she had a bad time and we were told this as soon as we pick up our child in a middle destination and our child told us so.He Thur her out of our lives. now it the mother that keeps on saying "they're family" and i say "every one made their beds now lie in them( our child your granddaughter well not go again until she is 18 years old)

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I'm sorry.. So you have another child and he kept it from his family but then told them?

What do you mean the Aunt gave $7 not to say she had a bad time with who?

Every child needs to see family, it would have to be in the child's best interest, abuse and the likes to keep them away from family or else it's selfish.

I think you need to explain a little more what you are talking about, if you want opinions on this subject, it's a tad confusing.

CW

[Hopeless Dork]

I agree CW. We need more info to chime in with support and opinions not real sure whats going on. Did your husbands family tell your child he has another child before you got the chance to do so? I'm a little confused.